{"id":11013,"date":"2025-03-26T16:23:10","date_gmt":"2025-03-26T16:23:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/?p=11013"},"modified":"2025-03-26T16:23:10","modified_gmt":"2025-03-26T16:23:10","slug":"kam-fjetur-para-studiove-te-njerezve-askush-nuk-me-ka-marre-brenda-ose-te-me-celte-deren-gjesti-rrefen-jeten-e-tij-mes-lotesh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/2025\/03\/26\/kam-fjetur-para-studiove-te-njerezve-askush-nuk-me-ka-marre-brenda-ose-te-me-celte-deren-gjesti-rrefen-jeten-e-tij-mes-lotesh\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Kam fjetur para studiove t\u00eb njer\u00ebzve, askush nuk m\u00eb ka marr\u00eb brenda ose t\u00eb m\u00eb \u00e7elte der\u00ebn&#8221;\/ Gjesti rr\u00ebfen jet\u00ebn e tij mes lot\u00ebsh!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Gjesti ka rr\u00ebqethur me rr\u00ebfimin e kryer n\u00eb linj\u00ebn e jet\u00ebs sa i p\u00ebrket rrug\u00ebtimit t\u00eb tij nga nj\u00eb adoleshent tep\u00ebr i pabindur, n\u00eb nisjen e karrier\u00ebs si artist.<\/p>\n<p>Megjith\u00ebse vet\u00ebm 24-vje\u00e7, problemet ekonomike dhe sfidat e jet\u00ebs kan\u00eb ndikuar s\u00eb tep\u00ebrmi n\u00eb gjendjen e karakterit t\u00eb tij. Gjesti rr\u00ebfeu p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebrin\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, dhe se si problemet ekonomike t\u00eb familjes e shtyn\u00eb drejt shoq\u00ebris\u00eb s\u00eb keqe, p\u00ebrdorimit t\u00eb substancave t\u00eb ndaluara, deri n\u00eb pik\u00ebn sa ai donte t\u2019i jepte fund jet\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p>Besimi n\u00eb Zot, ishte i vetmi shp\u00ebtim p\u00ebr banorin. Gjesti u shpreh se n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb nisi t\u00eb falet, b\u00ebri nj\u00eb hap pas dhe vuri re se rruga q\u00eb kishte zgjedhur po e \u00e7onte shum\u00eb posht\u00eb, p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye duhej t\u00eb ndryshonte. Ai hoqi dor\u00eb nga hashashi dhe n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 18-vje\u00e7are u largua nga familja p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndjekur pasionin e tij p\u00ebr muzik\u00ebn me shpres\u00eb se do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebnte nj\u00eb karrier\u00eb si artist.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cJemi 3 f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, me dy prind\u00ebrit q\u00eb i dua shum\u00eb. P\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb kemi q\u00ebndruar n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi 1 kat\u00ebshe, n\u00eb kushte shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira. Nj\u00eb mur na ka ndar\u00eb prej lop\u00ebve, t\u00eb cilat na mbanin dhe ushqenin. Pun\u00ebt e fshatit na kan\u00eb mbajtur. Babi dhe mami kan\u00eb punuar gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebn p\u00ebr ne. Babi me shum\u00eb mund punonte n\u00eb nd\u00ebrtim dhe pun\u00eb t\u00eb tjera n\u00eb fshat. E ka pasur shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb na mbante.Kam qen\u00eb nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i rrug\u00ebs, me shoq\u00ebri t\u00eb keqe. Nuk e kam d\u00ebgjuar familjen, ua kam kthyer fjal\u00ebn dhe n\u00eb shum\u00eb raste i kam b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb qar\u00eb. Kam b\u00ebr\u00eb shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra q\u00eb nuk duhen b\u00ebr\u00eb. Ja nisa t\u00eb pi hashash q\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 12-vje\u00e7are dhe kjo m\u00eb krijoi shum\u00eb probleme me babin dhe mamin. Nuk isha m\u00eb vet\u00ebvetja, Besardi, nuk e doja veten. Vendosa t\u00eb largohesha prej bot\u00ebs, t\u2019i jepja fund jet\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p>Me ndihm\u00ebn e Zotit, ja nisa t\u00eb falem dhe vendosa ta l\u00eb kur e pash\u00eb veten se po shkoj shum\u00eb posht\u00eb. Isha duke b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00ebkate me njer\u00ebz q\u00eb nuk m\u00eb kishin b\u00ebr\u00eb asgj\u00eb, thjesht ishte problemi te un\u00eb. Babi kur e mori vesh q\u00eb un\u00eb e konsumoja hashashin, p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb i pash lotin n\u00eb sy prej djalit t\u00eb vet\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Tani kur shoh ndonj\u00eb t\u00eb moshuar duke qar\u00eb, m\u00eb vjen shum\u00eb keq sepse m\u00eb kujton babain tim. Nuk do t\u00eb kisha dashur kurr\u00eb t\u2019ua kisha kthyer fjal\u00ebn prind\u00ebrve. T\u00eb mos u kisha ngrysur as vetullat, jo m\u00eb t\u2019u ktheja fjal\u00ebn.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 18-vje\u00e7are vendosa t\u00eb ikja prej familjes p\u00ebr karrier\u00ebn time. Normal q\u00eb kan\u00eb qen\u00eb kund\u00ebr, por s\u2019kishin mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmonin. Babi u p\u00ebrpoq t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmonte t\u00eb b\u00ebja nj\u00eb k\u00ebng\u00eb, por nuk kishte t\u00eb ardhura k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb u largova prej tyre. E vetmja zgjidhje, e vetmja rrug\u00eb ishte t\u00eb largohesha prej tyre, ti l\u00ebndoja dhe n\u00eb fund t\u00eb kthehesha n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe t\u2019u thosha ja dola. E dija thell\u00eb n\u00eb zem\u00ebr se Zoti kishte p\u00ebr t\u00eb ma hapur nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb. E dija q\u00eb do t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmonte sepse zemr\u00ebn e kam t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Shkova n\u00eb Prishtin\u00eb, nuk kisha as p\u00ebr t\u00eb ngr\u00ebn\u00eb as p\u00ebr t\u00eb pir\u00eb. P\u00ebr rreth dy vjet, nuk kan\u00eb ditur asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr mua. Nuk dinin n\u00ebse kisha p\u00ebr t\u00eb ngr\u00ebn\u00eb apo p\u00ebr t\u00eb pir\u00eb, n\u00ebse isha mir\u00eb apo m\u00eb kishte gjetur di\u00e7ka e keqe.<\/p>\n<p>Kam shkuar n\u00ebp\u00ebr studio t\u00eb muzik\u00ebs, u kam shkruar njer\u00ebzve p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmuar, askush nuk m\u00eb ka ndihmuar. Kam fjetur para studiove t\u00eb njer\u00ebzve, askush nuk m\u00eb ka marr\u00eb brenda ose t\u00eb m\u00eb \u00e7elte der\u00ebn. Aty vendosa q\u00eb k\u00ebtu duhet t\u00eb \u00e7ohesh vet\u00eb, duhet t\u00eb jesh i fort\u00eb dhe t\u00eb arrish gjith\u00e7ka vet\u00eb. Kam hequr shum\u00eb p\u00ebr muzik\u00ebn, por b\u00ebra gjith\u00e7ka sepse e di q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dhunti q\u00eb ma ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb Zoti. Jam pishman sepse p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb u kam djegur zemr\u00ebn, i kam l\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb mendojn\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb keqen p\u00ebr mua. Nuk e dinin ku jam. Por kur u ktheva me sukses gjeta babin te dera. M\u00eb dha dor\u00ebn, nd\u00ebrsa mami m\u00eb ka p\u00ebrqafuar. Ai kur pa mamin, m\u00eb p\u00ebrqafoi dhe ai. \u00c7do send u kry p\u00ebr mua sepse un\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb e kam b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebr ata, jo p\u00ebr vete. Mami ka qen\u00eb m\u00eb e \u00e7elur me mua, m\u00eb ka kuptuar, ishte nj\u00eb legjend\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Edhe pse ua kam kthyer fjal\u00ebn dhe i kam b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb vuajn\u00eb, besoj se m\u00eb kan\u00eb falur dhe m\u00eb kan\u00eb kuptuar. Un\u00eb jetoj p\u00ebr ata, p\u00ebr ta jam k\u00ebtu. Dua t\u2019i shoh t\u00eb veshur, t\u00eb mbathur. Ashtu sikurse m\u00eb kan\u00eb rritur, dua t\u2019i shoh edhe t\u2019ua kthej n\u00eb po t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn form\u00eb, t\u2019i rris\u00eb dhe t\u2019i mbaj p\u00ebll\u00ebmb\u00eb t\u00eb dor\u00ebs dhe un\u00eb. Dua t\u2019i shoh, t\u2019ua ndjej\u00eb z\u00ebrin. Un\u00eb jetoj p\u00ebr ata, dua ti shoh mir\u00eb dhe u krye gjith\u00e7ka\u201d, tha Gjesti n\u00eb rr\u00ebfimin e tij.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Gjesti ka rr\u00ebqethur me rr\u00ebfimin e kryer n\u00eb linj\u00ebn e jet\u00ebs sa i p\u00ebrket rrug\u00ebtimit t\u00eb tij nga nj\u00eb adoleshent tep\u00ebr i pabindur, n\u00eb nisjen e karrier\u00ebs si artist. Megjith\u00ebse vet\u00ebm 24-vje\u00e7, problemet ekonomike dhe sfidat e jet\u00ebs kan\u00eb ndikuar s\u00eb tep\u00ebrmi n\u00eb gjendjen e karakterit t\u00eb tij. Gjesti rr\u00ebfeu p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebrin\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, dhe<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":11014,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-11013","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-showbiz"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11013","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11013"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11013\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11015,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11013\/revisions\/11015"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11014"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11013"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11013"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11013"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}