{"id":11677,"date":"2025-09-05T14:44:24","date_gmt":"2025-09-05T14:44:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/?p=11677"},"modified":"2025-09-05T14:44:24","modified_gmt":"2025-09-05T14:44:24","slug":"arbenita-ben-akuza-shokuese-ndaj-feros-me-ka-goditur-gjate-kohes-kur-isha-shtatzene","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/2025\/09\/05\/arbenita-ben-akuza-shokuese-ndaj-feros-me-ka-goditur-gjate-kohes-kur-isha-shtatzene\/","title":{"rendered":"Arbenita b\u00ebn akuza shokuese ndaj Feros: M\u00eb ka goditur gjat\u00eb koh\u00ebs kur isha shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Arbenita Ismajli, p\u00ebrmes nj\u00eb reagimi n\u00eb rrjetet sociale, ka akuzuar ish-bashk\u00ebshortin, Feron, p\u00ebr p\u00ebrdorim t\u00eb substancave narkotike, dhun\u00eb, munges\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsie n\u00eb lidhje me vajz\u00ebn e tyre, Nin\u00ebn, manipulim dhe tradhti.<\/p>\n<p>Fillimisht, modelja ka publikuar postimet e Feros, i cili ka pretenduar se historia e tij nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb treguar kurr\u00eb dhe se shum\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb pretendojn\u00eb se jan\u00eb rritur pa prezenc\u00ebn e babait, jo sepse ai nuk ka dashur, por sepse dikush nuk ka lejuar t\u00eb tregohet versioni i tyre.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAi ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb, historia e tij nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb treguar, sepse un\u00eb nuk dua q\u00eb ime bij\u00eb dhe t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt t\u00eb mendojn\u00eb se ai \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrbind\u00ebsh. M\u00eb lejoni t\u00eb tregoj pak nga (historia e tij):<br \/>\n1. Abuzimi me kokain\u00ebn (kam paguar p\u00ebr rehabilitimin dhe ai s\u00ebrish u rikthye (te kokaina).<br \/>\n2. Tradhtia e shpesht\u00eb e n\u00ebn\u00ebs s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb tij (nuk po flas pa prova).<br \/>\n3. Nuk ka pasur t\u00eb ardhura t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme dhe nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjur p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn (gjykata e di q\u00eb ai nuk ka paguar p\u00ebr asgj\u00eb).<br \/>\n4. Abuzimin psikologjik t\u00eb kujdestares s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb tij (t\u00eb gjitha provat jan\u00eb n\u00eb gjyq).<br \/>\n5. Ka goditur n\u00ebn\u00ebn e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb tij nd\u00ebrsa ishte shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb, n\u00ebn\u00ebn dhe motr\u00ebn e tij (nuk dua q\u00eb t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb me vajz\u00ebn time).<br \/>\n6. N\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdueshme \u00ebsht\u00eb grindur me t\u00eb gjith\u00eb brenda rrethit t\u00eb industris\u00eb muzikore, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos p\u00ebrmendur q\u00eb ka qen\u00eb disa her\u00eb n\u00eb burg p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb.<br \/>\n7. Ka rezultuar se shiste drog\u00eb (\u00e7far\u00eb shembulli \u00ebsht\u00eb ky p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn?).<br \/>\n8. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb kujdeset p\u00ebr veten (ka raste q\u00eb fle me t\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebn e tij).<br \/>\n9. Ka refuzuar divorcin dhe pse i jam p\u00ebrgj\u00ebruar p\u00ebr 3 muaj.<br \/>\n10. Gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb lidhjes son\u00eb, kam paguar p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka: Sht\u00ebpin\u00eb, makinat, rrobat, ushqimin (p\u00ebr familjen e tij, kujdesin mjek\u00ebsor, t\u00eb gjitha faturat mjek\u00ebsore dhe p\u00ebr vajz\u00ebn ton\u00eb, kam paguar gjith\u00e7ka).<br \/>\n11. Vijon t\u00eb p\u00ebrdor\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn ton\u00eb si nj\u00eb taktik\u00eb hakmarr\u00ebse, p\u00ebr faktin se jemi divorcuar.<br \/>\n12. Edhe familja e tij \u00ebsht\u00eb abuzive, kan\u00eb vjedhur lek\u00eb, rroba, makina dhe gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb mund t\u00eb merrnin prej meje\u201d, duke vijuar se ai ka pasur mb\u00ebshtetjen e s\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebs!<\/p>\n<p>Arbenita vijoi duke th\u00ebn\u00eb se gjithnj\u00eb e ka lejuar Feron t\u00eb shfaqej lirisht n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e saj, sa her\u00eb ai ka dashur, \u00ebsht\u00eb informuar p\u00ebr pushimet q\u00eb modelja dhe Nina ka b\u00ebr\u00eb.<br \/>\nAjo u shpreh se Fero ka b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb deklarat\u00eb t\u00eb rreme dhe se ka marr\u00eb kujdestarin\u00eb e vajz\u00ebs n\u00eb shtator t\u00eb vitit 2024, por m\u00eb pas, ajo ka rimarr\u00eb kujdestarin\u00eb e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPas k\u00ebsaj, ishte shum\u00eb e rrezikshme p\u00ebr mua q\u00eb t\u00eb kthehesha n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb dhe t\u00eb vijoja me vizitat n\u00eb Qendr\u00ebn e Sh\u00ebrbimeve Sociale (p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat nuk kam pranuar kurr\u00eb, pasi ka pasur nj\u00eb ndikim negative p\u00ebr sh\u00ebndetin mendor t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs sim).<\/p>\n<p>Ai ishte xheloz p\u00ebr shum\u00eb muaj edhe pas dovorcit, m\u00eb ka puthur me forc\u00eb (veprim p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebnuar nga gjykata) dhe n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdueshme m\u00eb ka k\u00ebrc\u00ebnuar mua dhe familjen time\u201d. Modelja vijoi se krejt papritur, ai u b\u00eb besimtar, q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb mendonin se ai ishte nj\u00eb person me moral t\u00eb drejt\u00eb dhe se ajo kishte g\u00ebnjyer publikisht se Fero e kishte dhunuar. \u201cAi m\u00eb quajti materialiste, nd\u00ebrsa isha un\u00eb duke paguar p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb p\u00ebr familjen. Ai nuk m\u00eb ka bler\u00eb kurr\u00eb as edhe nj\u00eb \u00e7ant\u00eb. Sht\u00ebpia ku ai jeton \u00ebsht\u00eb e imja, ka nj\u00eb betej\u00eb ligjore q\u00eb i ati i tij m\u00eb detyrohet 50 mij\u00eb euro dhe ende nuk m\u2019i ka shlyer\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Akuzat e Arbenit\u00ebs vijojn\u00eb duke th\u00ebn\u00eb se gjat\u00eb takimeve me t\u00eb bij\u00ebn, Fero e ka intimiduar dhe i ka k\u00ebrkuar q\u00eb t\u00eb rikthehen bashk\u00eb, si dhe n\u00eb intervistat q\u00eb ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb, ai ka g\u00ebnjyer dhe ka b\u00ebr\u00eb akuza t\u00eb rreme.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPo mundohem t\u00eb mbroj vajz\u00ebn time nga i gjith\u00eb toksiciteti, manipulimi dhe g\u00ebnjeshtrat. N\u00ebse ai do kishte sjellje respektuese, do t\u00eb donte t\u00eb kishte nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb bashk\u00ebprind\u00ebronte si nj\u00eb burr\u00eb i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, nuk do t\u00eb kisha asnj\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtim. Pavar\u00ebsisht k\u00ebtyre dhe faktit se q\u00ebllimet e tij nuk kan\u00eb qen\u00eb t\u00eb sinqerta dhe ka tentuar t\u00eb m\u00eb d\u00ebmtoj\u00eb, kam pranuar q\u00eb ai t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb vizita dhe t\u00eb shoh\u00eb Nin\u00ebn. Deri m\u00eb sot nuk kam th\u00ebn\u00eb asgj\u00eb negative p\u00ebr t\u00eb atin te vajza ime. Fatkeq\u00ebsisht, vajza jon\u00eb ka d\u00ebshmuar sjelljen e tij t\u00eb dhunshme karshi meje dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve p\u00ebrreth dhe ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithashtu e frik\u00ebsuar\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Arbenita tregoi se vizitat n\u00eb qendrat sociale kan\u00eb pasur nj\u00eb ndikim negativ p\u00ebr vog\u00eblushen dhe ka akuzuar ish-bashk\u00ebshortin se ai ende vijon t\u00eb k\u00ebrc\u00ebnoj\u00eb familjen e saj me mesazhe dhe se ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekur vazhdimisht q\u00eb t\u00eb mos krijoj\u00eb drama online.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Arbenita Ismajli, p\u00ebrmes nj\u00eb reagimi n\u00eb rrjetet sociale, ka akuzuar ish-bashk\u00ebshortin, Feron, p\u00ebr p\u00ebrdorim t\u00eb substancave narkotike, dhun\u00eb, munges\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsie n\u00eb lidhje me vajz\u00ebn e tyre, Nin\u00ebn, manipulim dhe tradhti. Fillimisht, modelja ka publikuar postimet e Feros, i cili ka pretenduar se historia e tij nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb treguar kurr\u00eb dhe se shum\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb pretendojn\u00eb se<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":11678,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-11677","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-showbiz"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11677","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11677"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11677\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11679,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11677\/revisions\/11679"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11678"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11677"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11677"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11677"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}