Jan\u00eb disa ‘rregulla’ n\u00eb \u00e7ift q\u00eb vendosen n\u00eb heshtje n\u00eb lidhje me t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn. E kaluara mbetet e kaluar, apo do t\u00eb ket\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi n\u00eb t\u00eb tashmen tuaj? A \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shkak p\u00ebr situatat e xhelozis\u00eb? A ka pasur biseda t\u00eb ngjashme m\u00eb par\u00eb?<\/p>\n
\u00c7do vajz\u00eb e di n\u00eb thelb se si do t\u00eb reagoj partneri!<\/strong><\/p>\n Gjithashtu, mendoj se ia vlen t\u00eb pyes\u00ebsh veten pse ndihesh fajtore dhe pse ke d\u00ebshir\u00ebn p\u00ebr t’ia th\u00ebn\u00eb atij di\u00e7ka nga e kaluara. Nuk ka arsye pse t\u00eb ndihesh keq p\u00ebr lidhjen ose lidhjet e m\u00ebparshme. Edhe n\u00ebse her\u00eb pas here ndjen nj\u00eb mall nostalgjik p\u00ebr nj\u00eb ish. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb normale.\u00a0 Personalisht, nuk dua domosdoshm\u00ebrisht t\u00eb di p\u00ebr \u00e7do person me t\u00eb cilin i dashuri im ka patur marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie.<\/p>\n N\u00ebse i thua atij… Mund t\u00eb zem\u00ebrohet.<\/p>\n N\u00ebse mendon se ai nuk do t’i trajtoj\u00eb mir\u00eb ngjarjet e jet\u00ebs t\u00ebnde s\u00eb kaluar\u00a0duke qen\u00eb i vrenjtur dhe pa humor gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb nat\u00ebs, duke v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb pik\u00ebpyetje veprimet dhe motivet e tua at\u00ebher\u00eb absolutisht nuk duhet t’i tregosh. Tashm\u00eb keni r\u00ebn\u00eb dakord q\u00eb t\u00eb mos flisni p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ju lutemi mos u ndjeni fajtor p\u00ebr t’u frenuar.<\/p>\n Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb mosndarja e informacionit nuk ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me fshehjen e nj\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtete t\u00eb keqe, por t\u00eb kuptuarit se informacioni nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb domosdoshm\u00ebrisht i dobish\u00ebm p\u00ebr partnerin tuaj. K\u00ebtu nuk ka nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje t\u00eb vetme q\u00eb i p\u00ebrshtatet t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve. B\u00ebni m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn tuaj duke marr\u00eb parasysh se n\u00eb cil\u00ebn situat\u00eb jeni, si mund t\u00eb reagoj\u00eb partneri juaj dhe cila ishte fryma e marr\u00ebveshjes fillestare.<\/p>\n A do ta b\u00ebnte ky informacion m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb apo m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj? Apo jan\u00eb thashetheme t\u00eb par\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb thjesht do t\u00eb thumbonin? Nuk meritoni t\u00eb ndiheni fajtore p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet e m\u00ebparshme (qoft\u00eb rast\u00ebsore), as nuk duhet t\u00eb ndjeni nevoj\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbajtur sekrete t\u00eb pak\u00ebndshme.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Jan\u00eb disa ‘rregulla’ n\u00eb \u00e7ift q\u00eb vendosen n\u00eb heshtje n\u00eb lidhje me t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn. E kaluara mbetet e kaluar, apo do t\u00eb ket\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi n\u00eb t\u00eb tashmen tuaj? A \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shkak p\u00ebr situatat e xhelozis\u00eb? A ka pasur biseda t\u00eb ngjashme m\u00eb par\u00eb? \u00c7do vajz\u00eb e di n\u00eb thelb se si do t\u00eb reagoj<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":11723,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-11722","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lifestyle"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11722","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11722"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11722\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11724,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11722\/revisions\/11724"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11723"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11722"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11722"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11722"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}