Peter Mutabazi e vuri re sh\u00ebnjestr\u00ebn e tij nj\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje, nd\u00ebrsa burri po ecte n\u00ebp\u00ebr nj\u00eb treg t\u00eb mbushur me njer\u00ebz. Burri ishte vet\u00ebm dhe i veshur n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb elegante, me nj\u00eb k\u00ebmish\u00eb me kopsa, pantallona kaki dhe syze profesionale. Ai bredhi n\u00ebp\u00ebr tezgat e ushqimit, pa e v\u00ebn\u00eb re Mutabazin q\u00eb i afrohej me \u00e7do hap. \u201cKy djal\u00eb nuk ka iden\u00eb fare\u201d, mendoi Mutabazi, at\u00ebher\u00eb 15 vje\u00e7, nd\u00ebrsa iu afrua burrit. Asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk kontrolloi mbi shpatull dhe as nuk e vuri dor\u00ebn n\u00eb portofol p\u00ebr t\u2019u siguruar q\u00eb ishte aty.<\/p>\n
Mutabazit i duhej gjith\u00eb fati q\u00eb mundi t\u00eb mblidhte n\u00eb at\u00eb moment. Ishte viti 1988 n\u00eb Kampala t\u00eb Ugand\u00ebs, dhe ai kishte jetuar vet\u00ebm n\u00eb rrug\u00eb p\u00ebr pes\u00eb vjet. Ai ishte vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb nga mij\u00ebra f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb pastreh\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqeshin t\u00eb mbijetonin n\u00eb kryeqytetin e vendit t\u00eb tij gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb kohe t\u00eb rrezikshme. Ekonomia e Ugand\u00ebs ishte shkat\u00ebrruar nga nj\u00eb luft\u00eb civile, grushte shteti dhe nj\u00eb epidemi e HIV-it.<\/p>\n
I riu Peter mbijetoi duke vjedhur dhe duke lypur. Ai zakonisht i afrohej nj\u00eb bler\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t’i k\u00ebrkuar nj\u00eb l\u00ebmosh\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa ofrohej t’u mbante \u00e7antat e ushqimeve, vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb pak ushqim nga \u00e7antat nd\u00ebrsa ua \u00e7onte ushqimet n\u00eb makina.<\/p>\n
Megjithat\u00eb, para se t\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebnte t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb me k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb huaj, burri u kthye dhe u p\u00ebrball me t\u00eb. Pastaj burri buz\u00ebqeshi dhe i b\u00ebri nj\u00eb pyetje aq t\u00eb papritur sa adoleshenti pa dashje b\u00ebri disa hapa prapa. Kjo p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsonte nj\u00eb rrezik q\u00eb Mutabazi i zgjuar nuk e kishte parashikuar. Ajo pyetje dhe p\u00ebrgjigjja q\u00eb ai dha n\u00eb k\u00ebmbim, do ta ndryshonin jet\u00ebn e tij p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb.<\/p>\n
SOT AI \u00cbSHT\u00cb NJ\u00cb HERO I BABAIT KUJDESTAR<\/strong><\/p>\n Mutabazi hap der\u00ebn e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb s\u00eb tij elegante me pes\u00eb dhoma gjumi n\u00eb Charlotte t\u00eb Karolin\u00ebs s\u00eb Veriut dhe e p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndet vizitorin me nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje t\u00eb gjer\u00eb. Nj\u00eb Tesla e bardh\u00eb ulet n\u00eb oborrin e tij dhe dy qen t\u00eb kuruar mir\u00eb, ul\u00ebrijn\u00eb dhe lehin. L\u00ebndina e kuruar mir\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb lagje periferike \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb larg Kampal\u00ebs, por udh\u00ebtimi i Mutabazit nuk do t\u00eb kishte qen\u00eb i mundur pa t\u00eb huajin q\u00eb takoi m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 30 vjet m\u00eb par\u00eb.<\/p>\n Sot, Mutabazi mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb babai kujdestar m\u00eb i njohur n\u00eb SHBA. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb kujdesur p\u00ebr 47 f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe ka adoptuar tre t\u00eb tjer\u00eb. Brend\u00ebsia e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb s\u00eb tij pasqyron detyrat e jasht\u00ebzakonshme prind\u00ebrore t\u00eb Mutabazit. Nj\u00eb dhom\u00eb loj\u00ebrash p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00eb e pajisur mir\u00eb ndodhej n\u00eb t\u00eb djatht\u00eb t\u00eb hollit t\u00eb tij, e kompletuar me arusha pelushi, nj\u00eb poster gjigant dinosaur\u00ebsh dhe nj\u00eb poster tjet\u00ebr me shkronja gjigante shum\u00ebngjyr\u00ebshe q\u00eb deklaronte: “DUA T\u00cb JESH I guximsh\u00ebm, i sjellsh\u00ebm… i patrembur, i vendosur dhe TI!” Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb versioni i Mutabazit q\u00eb publiku amerikan ka par\u00eb vitet e fundit.<\/p>\n Ai ka shkruar dy libra, ka grumbulluar m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 870,000 ndjek\u00ebs n\u00eb Instagram dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb paraqitur gjer\u00ebsisht n\u00eb media p\u00ebr pun\u00ebn e tij n\u00eb kujdesin ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. Portretet e Mutabazit e tregojn\u00eb at\u00eb duke p\u00ebrqafuar dhe duke luajtur me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tij, shum\u00eb prej t\u00eb cil\u00ebve jan\u00eb t\u00eb bardh\u00eb. Mutabazi, 52 vje\u00e7, thot\u00eb se kurr\u00eb nuk e kishte imagjinuar t\u00eb ishte aty ku \u00ebsht\u00eb sot.<\/p>\n \u201cT\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrrosh si f\u00ebmij\u00eb rruge \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb g\u00ebnjesh veten\u201d, thot\u00eb ai. \u201cNe nuk \u00ebnd\u00ebrronim sepse t\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrroje nuk ishte di\u00e7ka q\u00eb na kishin m\u00ebsuar. T\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrroje p\u00ebr nj\u00eb vend m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb ishte t\u00eb g\u00ebnjeje veten, dhe nuk duhet ta g\u00ebnjesh veten \u00e7do dit\u00eb\u201d. “Babai im m\u00eb thoshte: ‘Do t\u00eb doja t\u00eb mos kishe lindur kurr\u00eb, q\u00eb t\u00eb mos m\u00eb duhej t\u00eb t\u00eb ushqeja'”, tregon ai.<\/p>\n Por nj\u00eb z\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm mungon n\u00eb historit\u00eb rreth Mutabazit. \u00cbsht\u00eb z\u00ebri i njeriut q\u00eb e m\u00ebsoi t\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrronte. \u00cbsht\u00eb njeriu q\u00eb takoi Mutabazin n\u00eb tregun e Ugand\u00ebs dhe e frym\u00ebzoi t\u00eb shkruante n\u00eb kujtimet e tij : “E gjith\u00eb jeta ime varet nga marrja e mir\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb pamerituar”. Kush \u00ebsht\u00eb ai burr\u00eb? Dhe nga t\u00eb gjith\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e rrug\u00ebs n\u00eb Kampala, pse e ve\u00e7oi Mutabazin?<\/p>\n Emri i burrit \u00ebsht\u00eb Jacques Masiko dhe jeta e tij ka pasur edhe an\u00eb dramatike. Tani n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 77 vje\u00e7, ai ende jeton n\u00eb Ugand\u00eb. Nj\u00eb burr\u00eb i g\u00ebzuar q\u00eb flet me nj\u00eb theks t\u00eb leht\u00eb britanik, thot\u00eb se kur takoi p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb Mutabazin, pa nj\u00eb adoleshent q\u00eb ishte vet\u00ebm, i dob\u00ebsuar dhe i traumatizuar. \u201cAi ishte pa k\u00ebpuc\u00eb dhe i pashpres\u00eb\u201d, i thot\u00eb Masiko CNN-s\u00eb. \u201cDuket se donte nj\u00eb lidhje. Donte dik\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019i jepte nj\u00eb jet\u00eb kuptimplot\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n Nd\u00ebrsa t\u00eb dy u p\u00ebrball\u00ebn me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin n\u00eb sheshin e tregut, burri i b\u00ebri nj\u00eb pyetje t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb. “Si quhesh?” Piteri hezitoi. Ishte nj\u00eb pyetje e rrezikshme sepse asnj\u00eb i rritur nuk ia kishte b\u00ebr\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb kur ishte n\u00eb rrug\u00eb. Mosdh\u00ebnia e emrit t\u00eb tij t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb form\u00eb vet\u00ebmbrojtjeje. Anonimiteti i tij e ndihmonte f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e rrug\u00ebs t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtonte nj\u00eb blindazh psikologjik. Ai mund t\u00eb mbetej i pandjesh\u00ebm n\u00ebse e shihte veten vet\u00ebm si \u201cDjali i Mbeturinave\u201d.<\/p>\n Piteri ia tregoi emrin e tij t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Masiko q\u00ebroi disa banane nga \u00e7anta e tij e ushqimeve dhe ia dha. Djali ndihej i shqet\u00ebsuar, por kishte gjetur nj\u00eb burim t\u00eb besuesh\u00ebm ushqimi. Sa her\u00eb q\u00eb Masiko e vizitonte n\u00eb muajt q\u00eb pasuan, Piteri e k\u00ebrkonte p\u00ebr m\u00eb shum\u00eb ushqim.<\/p>\n Dhe pastaj u zhvillua nj\u00eb model i \u00e7uditsh\u00ebm. Masiko i b\u00ebri atij m\u00eb shum\u00eb pyetje: “A do t\u00eb doje t\u00eb shkoje n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb?” “Do t\u00eb doje t\u00eb haja dark\u00eb me familjen time?” Masiko e regjistroi n\u00eb nj\u00eb shkoll\u00eb me konvikt dhe e bindi n\u00ebn\u00ebn e Peterit q\u00eb ta lejonte t\u00eb birin t\u00eb transferohej n\u00eb familjen e tij. Dhe gradualisht, Mutabazi zbuloi pse tani mund t\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrronte.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Peter Mutabazi e vuri re sh\u00ebnjestr\u00ebn e tij nj\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje, nd\u00ebrsa burri po ecte n\u00ebp\u00ebr nj\u00eb treg t\u00eb mbushur me njer\u00ebz. Burri ishte vet\u00ebm dhe i veshur n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb elegante, me nj\u00eb k\u00ebmish\u00eb me kopsa, pantallona kaki dhe syze profesionale. 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