Intimiteti nuk ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb vet\u00ebm me kontaktin fizik, ai p\u00ebrfshin lidhjen emocionale, respektin, komunikimin dhe sinqeritetin. \u00c7do marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie e sh\u00ebndetshme duhet t\u2019i ket\u00eb k\u00ebto kat\u00ebr shtylla n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb funksionoj\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha nivelet Shpesh, grat\u00eb nuk nxisin intimitetin p\u00ebr disa arsye t\u00eb nd\u00ebrlidhura. Ekspert\u00ebt theksojn\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb ideale q\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebto tema t\u00eb flitet jasht\u00eb dhom\u00ebs s\u00eb gjumit, n\u00eb nj\u00eb atmosfer\u00eb neutrale, p\u00ebr shembull gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb darke t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt.<\/p>\n
Me k\u00ebto k\u00ebshilla \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e leht\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoni munges\u00ebn e interesit t\u00eb saj p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb hapin e par\u00eb. Ja 5 arsyet m\u00eb t\u00eb sinqerta pse gruaja nuk nis intimitetin:<\/p>\n
1. Ajo ka nevoj\u00eb fillimisht p\u00ebr intimitet t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb<\/p>\n
Trupi i gruas ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr but\u00ebsi dhe afeksion p\u00ebr t\u2019u hapur plot\u00ebsisht. N\u00ebse ajo ka shprehur se i mungon lidhja ose af\u00ebrsia emocionale dhe ju ndjeni q\u00eb po t\u00ebrhiqet, \u00ebsht\u00eb krejt\u00ebsisht e kuptueshme pse nuk merr iniciativ\u00ebn ose pse mund t\u00eb refuzoj\u00eb. P\u00ebrse t\u00eb b\u00ebhet e ndjeshme n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn m\u00eb intime me dik\u00eb me t\u00eb cilin nuk ndihet e sigurt dhe e lidhur? Intimiteti k\u00ebrkon koh\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa rind\u00ebrtimi i tij k\u00ebrkon edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb durim.<\/p>\n
2. Ajo mendon se partneri nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i gatsh\u00ebm<\/p>\n
Egoja e nj\u00eb gruaje mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb po aq e brisht\u00eb sa e nj\u00eb burri, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht kur b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr intimitetin. Shum\u00eb gra jan\u00eb rritur duke besuar se n\u00ebse hedhin ato hapin e par\u00eb, mund t\u00eb konsiderohen \u201ct\u00eb lehta\u201d. Prandaj, n\u00ebse burri nuk tregon iniciativ\u00eb, ato shpesh mendojn\u00eb se nuk jan\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00ebse, nuk duken bukur ose kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb di\u00e7ka gabim. P\u00ebr t\u00eb shmangur ndjesin\u00eb e refuzimit, preferojn\u00eb t\u00eb mos e nisin fare intimitetin, shkruan Your Tango, p\u00ebrcjell Telegrafi.<\/p>\n
3. Kur ndihen t\u00eb detyruara, humbin d\u00ebshir\u00ebn<\/p>\n
\u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebshirosh di\u00e7ka kur gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb paraqitet si detyrim. N\u00ebse intimiteti shihet si nj\u00eb \u201cobligim\u201d, gruaja nuk do t\u00eb ndiej\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00ebn ta nis\u00eb vet\u00eb. P\u00ebr t\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb ket\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00eb dhe liri p\u00ebr ta shprehur d\u00ebshir\u00ebn n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb natyrshme.<\/p>\n
4. Intimiteti i nj\u00ebansh\u00ebm e largon<\/p>\n
Grat\u00eb duan ndjenj\u00eb dhe pasion reciprok. N\u00ebse duket se intimiteti \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00ebansh\u00ebm dhe nuk respekton nevojat e saj, ajo nuk ka arsye ta nis\u00eb vet\u00eb. Ashtu si nj\u00eb bised\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebhet e m\u00ebrzitshme kur flet vet\u00ebm nj\u00ebra pal\u00eb, edhe intimiteti pa reciprocitet nuk ka kuptim p\u00ebr t\u00eb.<\/p>\n
5. Nuk di si ta shpreh\u00eb<\/p>\n
Shum\u00eb gra e din\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb ishte mir\u00eb t\u00eb nxisnin marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie intime, por nuk din\u00eb si ta b\u00ebjn\u00eb. Frika se mund t\u00eb duken t\u00eb sikletshme, t\u00eb mos kuptohen si duhet ose t\u00eb refuzohen, i b\u00ebn t\u00eb hezitojn\u00eb. P\u00ebr disa, ideja e marrjes s\u00eb iniciativ\u00ebs duket si nj\u00eb terren i pasigurt dhe madje frik\u00ebsues.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Intimiteti nuk ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb vet\u00ebm me kontaktin fizik, ai p\u00ebrfshin lidhjen emocionale, respektin, komunikimin dhe sinqeritetin. \u00c7do marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie e sh\u00ebndetshme duhet t\u2019i ket\u00eb k\u00ebto kat\u00ebr shtylla n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb funksionoj\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha nivelet Shpesh, grat\u00eb nuk nxisin intimitetin p\u00ebr disa arsye t\u00eb nd\u00ebrlidhura. Ekspert\u00ebt theksojn\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb ideale q\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebto tema<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":12303,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-12302","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lifestyle"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12302","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12302"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12302\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12304,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12302\/revisions\/12304"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12303"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12302"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12302"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12302"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}