N\u00ebse ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb vajza juaj 4-vje\u00e7are ka k\u00ebrkuar me ngulm\u00a0t\u00eb lyej\u00eb buz\u00ebt apo ka ngulur k\u00ebmb\u00eb t\u00eb marr\u00eb penelin tuaj, mos u shqet\u00ebso nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb sinjal alarmi. Sipas psikolog\u00ebve, \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka krejt normale, madje shpeshher\u00eb e dobishme p\u00ebr zhvillimin e saj. Kathryn Keough, thot\u00eb se shpesh prind\u00ebrit e shqet\u00ebsuar e pyesin n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb \u201cproblem\u201d q\u00eb vajza e tyre ka fiksim t\u00eb lyhet me make up-in e mamas\u00eb s\u00eb saj. Sipas psikologes, kjo sjellje \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb shum\u00eb e zakonshme e zhvillimit identitar dhe emocional te f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/p>\n
Pse nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb problem n\u00ebse f\u00ebmij\u00ebt duan t\u00eb luajn\u00eb me make-up<\/p>\n
K\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt gjejn\u00eb te rrobat me xixa, princeshat, buz\u00ebkuqi apo lodrat q\u00eb imitojn\u00eb produkte grimi nuk duhet par\u00eb si \u201ck\u00ebrc\u00ebnim\u201d. \u00cbsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb eksploruar veten. Q\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 6 muajshe, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt fillojn\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsohen p\u00ebr pamjen e tyre. N\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 18 muajshe, ata tashm\u00eb arrijn\u00eb t\u00eb njohin veten n\u00eb pasqyr\u00eb dhe nisin t\u00eb imitojn\u00eb t\u00eb rriturit p\u00ebrmes loj\u00ebs.\u00a0Nj\u00eb vog\u00eblushe q\u00eb lyen buz\u00ebt apo q\u00eb i k\u00ebrkon mamit parfumin, \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht duke u angazhuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb proces imagjinate dhe formimi t\u00eb vetes.<\/p>\n
Make-up-i si loj\u00eb, jo si standard bukurie<\/p>\n
Psikologia thekson se loja me produkte q\u00eb lidhen me pamjen \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme e zhvillimit t\u00eb identitetit. T\u00eb shtiresh sikur lyhesh, ose edhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrdor\u00ebsh produkte t\u00eb pad\u00ebmshme n\u00ebn mbik\u00ebqyrje, i ndihmon f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtojn\u00eb koordinimin motorik, t\u00eb ndjekin rendin logjik (hap kapakun, lyej, mbyll) dhe t\u00eb zhvillojn\u00eb krijimtarin\u00eb. N\u00ebse ndalojm\u00eb rrept\u00ebsisht k\u00ebto loj\u00ebra, rrezikojm\u00eb t\u2019u japim vajzave mesazhin se interesi i tyre p\u00ebr \u201cgj\u00ebrat e vajzave\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb i pavler\u00eb, madje i d\u00ebmsh\u00ebm. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb askush nuk b\u00ebn buj\u00eb kur djemt\u00eb luajn\u00eb me makina, shkum\u00eb rroje apo mjete nd\u00ebrtimi.<\/p>\n
Po rreziku i kimikateve?<\/p>\n
Sigurisht, jo \u00e7do produkt make-up-i \u00ebsht\u00eb i p\u00ebrshtatsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr l\u00ebkur\u00ebn e ndjeshme t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. Disa produkte t\u00eb famshme n\u00eb TikTok p\u00ebrmbajn\u00eb p\u00ebrb\u00ebr\u00ebs si retinoli q\u00eb mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb rreziksh\u00ebm p\u00ebr l\u00ebkur\u00ebn e re. Nj\u00eb studim nga Universiteti Columbia (2023) paralajm\u00ebroi p\u00ebr kimikate t\u00eb d\u00ebmshme n\u00eb produktet e kujdesit personal q\u00eb p\u00ebrdoren nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.\u00a0Por, si\u00e7 theksojn\u00eb ekspert\u00ebt, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb jesh i kujdessh\u00ebm me p\u00ebrb\u00ebrjen e produkteve,\u00a0dhe nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb ndalosh \u00e7do lloj loje q\u00eb ka lidhje me make up-in. Reagimi i tepruar mund t\u00eb shkurajoj\u00eb eksplorimin natyror q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt kan\u00eb p\u00ebr bot\u00ebn dhe veten.<\/p>\n
Vajzat nuk lyejn\u00eb buz\u00ebt p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00eblqyer djemve<\/p>\n
Ideja se vajzat duan t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorin make-up q\u00eb n\u00eb vog\u00ebli p\u00ebr t\u00eb r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb sy apo p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00eblqyer djemve \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb mit. Grat\u00eb vendosin buz\u00ebkuq p\u00ebr t\u00eb shprehur stilin, p\u00ebr t\u00eb fituar vet\u00ebbesim, p\u00ebr arsye kulturore dhe\u00a0k\u00ebt\u00eb mund ta shohim edhe te figura\u00a0publike si Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, e cila ka th\u00ebn\u00eb hapur q\u00eb buz\u00ebkuqi e b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndihet m\u00eb e fuqishme.<\/p>\n
Mesazhi i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit?<\/p>\n
N\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u2019i ndaloni f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb luajn\u00eb me make-up, m\u00eb mir\u00eb ndihmojini t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb q\u00eb pamja \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e asaj q\u00eb jan\u00eb. Jepuni mund\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb eksplorojn\u00eb, t\u00eb imitojn\u00eb, t\u00eb krijojn\u00eb qoft\u00eb kjo edhe me nj\u00eb lod\u00ebr buz\u00ebkuqi. N\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, zhvillimi i nj\u00eb ndjenje kontrolli mbi trupin dhe paraqitjen \u00ebsht\u00eb thelb\u00ebsor p\u00ebr mir\u00ebqenien e tyre emocionale.\u00a0Dhe n\u00ebse sot \u00ebsht\u00eb buz\u00ebkuqi, nes\u00ebr mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb vendimi p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb\u00a0shkenc\u00ebtare, artiste, apo politikane.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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