Nj\u00eb nga figurat m\u00eb t\u00eb njohura t\u00eb gazetaris\u00eb shqiptare, Rudina Xhunga, ka ndar\u00eb s\u00eb fundi nj\u00eb d\u00ebshmi t\u00eb thell\u00eb personale dhe prek\u00ebse mbi p\u00ebrballjen e saj t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme me demenc\u00ebn e n\u00ebn\u00ebs. N\u00eb nj\u00eb rr\u00ebfim t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb, ajo tregoi sfidat emocionale, dhimbjen, por edhe forc\u00ebn e jasht\u00ebzakonshme q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon kujdesi p\u00ebr nj\u00eb prind me nj\u00eb form\u00eb demence q\u00eb \u201cvjen dhe ik\u00ebn\u201d.<\/p>\n
Xhunga foli p\u00ebr momentet e rralla kur n\u00ebna e saj arrin ta pyes\u00eb \u201csi je?\u201d, nj\u00eb pyetje q\u00eb pas 13 vitesh mori pesh\u00ebn e nj\u00eb mrekullie. Ajo denoncoi edhe paragjykimin shoq\u00ebror, turpin dhe m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si trajtohen personat me \u00e7rregullime t\u00eb kujtes\u00ebs, duke theksuar se askush nuk ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u2019ua mohoj\u00eb dinjitetin apo lirin\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Intervista e plot\u00eb;<\/p>\n
Mami im \u00ebsht\u00eb me demenc\u00eb! \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj demence fluturake, q\u00eb vjen dhe ik\u00ebn, nuk rri gjithmon\u00eb aty. Dhe mami nuk ka nj\u00eb harres\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb harroj\u00eb. Ajo ka m\u00eb tep\u00ebr harres\u00eb p\u00ebr nevojat e mia por jo p\u00ebr mua. P\u00ebr shembull p\u00ebrpara dy dit\u00ebsh, m\u00eb tha: \u201cTi si je?\u201d, dhe un\u00eb fillova t\u00eb qaja sepse thash\u00eb pas 13 vitesh m\u00eb pyeti si je. N\u00eb fakt ajo s\u2019m\u00eb pyet m\u00eb si jam, do t\u00eb dij\u00eb vet\u00ebm si \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo dhe n\u00eb fakt ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mundim i madh. I thash\u00eb: \u201cS\u2019jam mir\u00eb, kam k\u00ebt\u00eb problem\u201d, \u201cEpo se s\u2019ke mama q\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb pyes\u00eb se si je prandaj\u201d-m\u00eb tha! Sepse ne t\u00eb gjith\u00eb duam q\u00eb t\u00eb na pyesin po kush na e ka ngen\u00eb?! Goca ka probleme, burri ka gjithmon\u00eb probleme dhe vet\u00ebm n\u00ebna mund t\u00eb t\u00eb pyesi.\u00a0\u00a0Por parafytyro nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb me demenc\u00eb q\u00eb nuk t\u00eb pyet dot, sa e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb jeta p\u00ebr ty\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb kur ajo m\u00eb pyeti \u201csi je\u201d, un\u00eb mora urgjenc\u00ebn p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb kat\u00ebrt q\u00eb ajo t\u00eb rrinte n\u00eb jet\u00eb edhe pse \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb.<\/em><\/p>\n Duhet t\u00eb m\u00ebsohesh, e para t\u00eb mos kesh turp! Sepse turpi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb bllokon dhe e burgos t\u00eb s\u00ebmurin. P\u00ebr turp un\u00eb do e kisha mbyllur mamin tim brenda q\u00eb mos t\u00eb dilte nga liqeni, po mami im do vdiste po t\u00eb mos dilte nga liqeni! Dhe nj\u00ebher\u00eb nga liqeni e gjeti nj\u00eb kolege, nj\u00eb gazetare, nj\u00eb goc\u00eb e re ose e madhe, nuk e di pse e b\u00ebn\u00eb dhe e intervistuan. Dhe ajo tha nga ato gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb thot\u00eb nj\u00eb njeri me demenc\u00eb. Dhe ata e nxorr\u00ebn! Thash\u00eb sa turp! Dhe ajo u tha: Jam n\u00ebna e Rudina Xhung\u00ebs. Dhe ata u g\u00ebzuan dhe e b\u00ebn\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb. Po kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00eb. Dhe pastaj po m\u00eb thonin: \u201cOk mami s\u2019duhet t\u00eb dali\u201d, po si, ta vras un\u00eb mamin tim q\u00eb ata t\u00eb mos tallen me mua? Le t\u00eb tallen sepse s\u2019ka asnj\u00eb problem. Ajo ka nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb dal\u00eb dhe do dali!<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Nj\u00eb nga figurat m\u00eb t\u00eb njohura t\u00eb gazetaris\u00eb shqiptare, Rudina Xhunga, ka ndar\u00eb s\u00eb fundi nj\u00eb d\u00ebshmi t\u00eb thell\u00eb personale dhe prek\u00ebse mbi p\u00ebrballjen e saj t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme me demenc\u00ebn e n\u00ebn\u00ebs. N\u00eb nj\u00eb rr\u00ebfim t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb, ajo tregoi sfidat emocionale, dhimbjen, por edhe forc\u00ebn e jasht\u00ebzakonshme q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon kujdesi p\u00ebr nj\u00eb prind me nj\u00eb<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":13569,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-13568","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-showbiz"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13568","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13568"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13568\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13570,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13568\/revisions\/13570"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13569"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13568"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13568"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13568"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}