Mbr\u00ebmja e djeshme n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e Big Brother Vip Albania Stenaldo vendosi t\u00eb hapte zemr\u00ebn dhe t\u00eb ndante me publikun historin\u00eb e tij t\u00eb jet\u00ebs.<\/p>\n
Mes lot\u00ebsh dhe emocioneve, ai rr\u00ebfeu plag\u00ebt e thella q\u00eb e kan\u00eb shoq\u00ebruar q\u00eb n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebri, humbjen tragjike t\u00eb babait, betej\u00ebn me humbjen e shikimit dhe forc\u00ebn e jasht\u00ebzakonshme t\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebs s\u00eb tij, e cila ka qen\u00eb shtylla kryesore e jet\u00ebs dhe motivi q\u00eb e shtyu t\u00eb b\u00ebhej pjes\u00eb e k\u00ebtij rrug\u00ebtimi.<\/p>\n
\u2018Un\u00eb kam lindur n\u00eb Lushnje n\u00eb 28 maj t\u00eb 1997. Kam lindur n\u00eb nj\u00eb qytet ku nuk kam jetuar kurr\u00eb, hiq muajin e par\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs time, derisa im at\u00eb n\u00eb qershor t\u00eb po atij viti nd\u00ebrroi jet\u00eb, I vrar\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb posht\u00ebr n\u00eb at\u00eb vit t\u00eb posht\u00ebr p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb shqiptar\u00ebt q\u00eb na ka b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb humbasim m\u00eb shum\u00eb se \u00e7do her\u00eb n\u00eb historin\u00eb ton\u00eb t\u00eb brisht\u00eb. U vra nga dikush mbasi atij i dha nj\u00eb p\u00ebrqafim dhe i ktheu kurrizin p\u00ebr t\u00eb vazhduar rrug\u00ebn e tij. Dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse un\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb kam th\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb bot\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb trimat vriten nga frikacak\u00ebt. Kur njeriu rritet me nj\u00eb humbje t\u00eb till\u00eb nuk ka me asnj\u00eb moment dramatik n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij, nuk ka nj\u00eb moment kur ti e m\u00ebson, ti thjesht e di q\u00eb ndryshe nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb babai jot nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb aty. Ajo q\u00eb dikush mund ta quaj\u00eb dram\u00eb, humbjen e shikimit, \u00ebsht\u00eb prap\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrjetim, q\u00eb I bie p\u00ebr pjes\u00eb mamas\u00eb dhe familjes nga t\u00eb dyja an\u00ebt, si nga ana e n\u00ebn\u00ebs ashtu dhe e babait, Sokolit, sepse shikimi m\u00eb humb relativisht shum\u00eb shpejt. Familja e kuptoi k\u00ebt\u00eb kur un\u00eb isha 6 muajsh. P\u00ebr maman\u00eb time si\u00e7 un\u00eb e kam kuptuar, ky mbetet nj\u00eb nga momentet m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb saj, q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb padiskutim i vetmi, Mjek\u00ebt na than\u00eb se un\u00eb kisha kaluar nj\u00eb infeksion n\u00eb Retin\u00eb. Askush nuk e di tamam si mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb ndodhur dhe q\u00eb retina tashm\u00eb ishte jasht\u00eb funksionit. Fakti q\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb shikoja ishte fakt dhe un\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb ndryshohej. Mamaja ime kaloi n\u00eb at\u00eb muaj, n\u00eb at\u00eb vit traum\u00ebn e jasht\u00ebzakonshme, por t\u00eb cil\u00ebs i q\u00ebndroi trime dhe nuk ju fsheh gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb saj. Ardhja n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb ishte v\u00ebrtet\u00eb nj\u00eb sfid\u00eb, e para ishte t\u00eb shkonim t\u00eb studionim n\u00eb nj\u00eb shkoll\u00eb q\u00eb ishte specifike dhe p\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj diferenca tjet\u00ebr ishte q\u00eb atje mund t\u00eb m\u00ebsonim t\u00eb shkruanim dhe t\u00eb lexonim n\u00eb let\u00ebr, nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb ku forma e shkronjave nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vizuale por e ngritur n\u00eb pika. Vazhdoja t\u00eb isha nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb shum\u00eb kurioz, q\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb, si \u00ebsht\u00eb floku im, tiparet.<\/em><\/p>\n Fillova t\u00eb studioja piano. Luft\u00ebn e madhe q\u00eb un\u00eb, por mbi t\u00eb gjitha mamaja ime kemi b\u00ebr\u00eb kur kemi ardhur n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb vend, p\u00ebrtej shkoll\u00ebs, ishim vet\u00ebm un\u00eb dhe ajo dhe nuk e keni iden\u00eb se \u00e7do t\u00eb thoshte t\u00eb vije n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb dhe t\u00eb luftoje t\u00eb gjeje nj\u00eb vend p\u00ebr t\u00eb futur kok\u00ebn. Flutura duhet t\u00eb ishte burr\u00eb dhe grua n\u00eb at\u00eb luft\u00eb. Un\u00eb kam qen\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb i hapur q\u00eb mamaja ime t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb plot\u00eb, nj\u00eb jet\u00eb ku t\u00eb mos jet\u00eb vet\u00ebm e dedikuar ndaj meje. Ne krijuam nj\u00eb familje q\u00eb n\u00eb fund rezultoi t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb humbje e madhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb. Nga ajo familje un\u00eb kam Xhoelin, t\u00eb cilin nuk kam mundur kurr\u00eb t\u00eb takoj p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb gjith\u00eb asaj q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi e madhe e p\u00ebrballjes me nj\u00eb situat\u00eb padiskutim m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebn e Flutur\u00ebs dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebn e jet\u00ebs time.<\/em><\/p>\n Un\u00eb kisha marr\u00eb nj\u00eb kontrat\u00eb pune p\u00ebr n\u00eb Gjermani dhe mu desh t\u00eb m\u00ebsoja metrot\u00eb dhe trenat. Nuk do ta harroj kur un\u00eb kisha hipur n\u00eb shinat e trenit duke menduar se isha n\u00eb rrug\u00eb. Kur erdhi mamaja n\u00eb Gjermani, e pati shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb dhe mora vendimin t\u00eb kthehesha n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. Ka qen\u00eb viti m\u00eb i v\u00ebshtir\u00eb q\u00eb mbaj mend un\u00eb si i rritur\u201d,\u00a0<\/em>u shpreh Stenaldo.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Mbr\u00ebmja e djeshme n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e Big Brother Vip Albania Stenaldo vendosi t\u00eb hapte zemr\u00ebn dhe t\u00eb ndante me publikun historin\u00eb e tij t\u00eb jet\u00ebs. Mes lot\u00ebsh dhe emocioneve, ai rr\u00ebfeu plag\u00ebt e thella q\u00eb e kan\u00eb shoq\u00ebruar q\u00eb n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebri, humbjen tragjike t\u00eb babait, betej\u00ebn me humbjen e shikimit dhe forc\u00ebn e jasht\u00ebzakonshme t\u00eb<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":13994,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-13993","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-showbiz"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13993","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13993"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13993\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13995,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13993\/revisions\/13995"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13994"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13993"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13993"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13993"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}