Rastet e shumta t\u00eb raportuara s\u00eb fundmi p\u00ebr vet\u00ebvrasje dhe tentativa vet\u00ebvrasjeje tek t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb kan\u00eb rikthyer n\u00eb qend\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e sh\u00ebndetit mendor dhe nevoj\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb folur m\u00eb hapur p\u00ebr t\u00eb.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb kontekst, kemi zgjedhur t\u00eb v\u00ebm\u00eb n\u00eb fokusin z\u00ebrin e ekspert\u00ebve, nj\u00eb prej t\u00eb cilave, psikologia dhe psikoterapistja psikodinamike Froso Fotinaki, e cila ka ndar\u00eb nj\u00eb mesazh t\u00eb fort\u00eb sensibilizues mbi at\u00eb q\u00eb shpesh fshihet pas mendimeve vet\u00ebvras\u00ebse, nisur nga i nj\u00ebjti fenomen q\u00eb ka tronditur edhe vendin fqinj, Greqin\u00eb, si p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebshmuar se nj\u00eb problem i till\u00eb nuk\u00a0\u00ebsht\u00eb lokal.<\/p>\n
P\u00ebrmes nj\u00eb postimi n\u00eb rrjetet sociale, ajo thekson se vet\u00ebvrasja nuk duhet par\u00eb si nj\u00eb akt dob\u00ebsie apo mungese force, por si pasoj\u00eb e nj\u00eb dhimbjeje t\u00eb thell\u00eb emocionale dhe e ndjenj\u00ebs se nuk ka m\u00eb rrug\u00ebdalje.<\/p>\n
\u201cNjer\u00ebzit q\u00eb mendojn\u00eb p\u00ebr vet\u00ebvrasje nuk duan domosdoshm\u00ebrisht t\u00eb vdesin. Ata duan q\u00eb dhimbja e tyre t\u00eb ndalet\u201d, shkruan ajo.<\/p>\n
Psikologia n\u00ebnvizon se shum\u00eb her\u00eb shenjat paralajm\u00ebruese jan\u00eb t\u00eb heshtura dhe kalojn\u00eb pa u v\u00ebn\u00eb re. Izolimi, mungesa e shpres\u00ebs, ndryshimet e papritura n\u00eb sjellje, \u201clamtumirat\u201d indirekte apo edhe nj\u00eb qet\u00ebsi e pazakont\u00eb pas nj\u00eb periudhe t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb emocionale mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb sinjale alarmi q\u00eb nuk duhen injoruar.<\/p>\n
Ajo shprehet se shoq\u00ebria ende e trajton me frik\u00eb ose heshtje k\u00ebt\u00eb tem\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa diskutimi i hapur mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb diferenc\u00ebn.<\/p>\n
\u201cT\u00eb flas\u00ebsh p\u00ebr vet\u00ebvrasjen nuk i shtyn njer\u00ebzit drejt saj. P\u00ebrkundrazi, mund t\u2019u jap\u00eb ndjesin\u00eb se dikush i d\u00ebgjon dhe i kupton\u201d, thekson ajo.<\/p>\n
Sipas saj, nj\u00eb nga gj\u00ebrat m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb mos minimizohet kurr\u00eb dhimbja e dikujt. N\u00ebse nj\u00eb person flet p\u00ebr mendime vet\u00ebvras\u00ebse, ai ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr d\u00ebgjim, mb\u00ebshtetje dhe ndihm\u00eb profesionale, jo p\u00ebr gjykim apo fraza t\u00eb tipit \u201cdo t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n
Psikologia kujton se vet\u00ebvrasja \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb shum\u00eb raste e parandalueshme, n\u00ebse personat q\u00eb vuajn\u00eb marrin ndihm\u00ebn e duhur n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e duhur. Ajo inkurajon familjar\u00ebt, miqt\u00eb dhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit t\u00eb jen\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebmendsh\u00ebm ndaj ndryshimeve emocionale tek njer\u00ebzit pran\u00eb tyre, sidomos tek t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb fund t\u00eb mesazhit t\u00eb saj, ajo u drejtohet t\u00eb gjith\u00eb atyre q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndihen t\u00eb pashpres\u00eb:<\/p>\n
\u201cNuk je vet\u00ebm. Dhimbja q\u00eb po ndjen \u00ebsht\u00eb reale, por ka njer\u00ebz q\u00eb mund t\u00eb t\u00eb ndihmojn\u00eb. Fol me dik\u00eb q\u00eb i beson, me nj\u00eb mik, familjar apo profesionist t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetit mendor. Jeta jote ka vler\u00eb.\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n N\u00ebse ju ose dikush pran\u00eb jush ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ndihm\u00eb emocionale apo psikologjike, mund t\u00eb kontaktoni:<\/em><\/p>\n ALO 116 111 \u2013 Linja Komb\u00ebtare e K\u00ebshillimit p\u00ebr F\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe Adoleshent\u00eb (24 or\u00eb)<\/em><\/p>\n 116 117 \u2013 Linja e K\u00ebshillimit p\u00ebr Gra dhe Vajza<\/em><\/p>\n 127 \u2013 Urgjenca mjek\u00ebsore<\/em><\/p>\n 112 \u2013 Numri komb\u00ebtar i emergjenc\u00ebs<\/em><\/p>\n T\u00eb k\u00ebrkosh ndihm\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb dob\u00ebsi. \u00cbsht\u00eb hapi i par\u00eb drejt sh\u00ebrimit.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Rastet e shumta t\u00eb raportuara s\u00eb fundmi p\u00ebr vet\u00ebvrasje dhe tentativa vet\u00ebvrasjeje tek t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb kan\u00eb rikthyer n\u00eb qend\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e sh\u00ebndetit mendor dhe nevoj\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb folur m\u00eb hapur p\u00ebr t\u00eb. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb kontekst, kemi zgjedhur t\u00eb v\u00ebm\u00eb n\u00eb fokusin z\u00ebrin e ekspert\u00ebve, nj\u00eb prej t\u00eb cilave, psikologia dhe psikoterapistja psikodinamike Froso<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":15834,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-15833","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lifestyle"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15833","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15833"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15833\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15835,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15833\/revisions\/15835"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15834"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15833"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15833"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15833"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}