{"id":16714,"date":"2026-09-07T17:20:54","date_gmt":"2026-09-07T17:20:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/?p=16714"},"modified":"2026-09-07T17:20:54","modified_gmt":"2026-09-07T17:20:54","slug":"femije-jashte-martese-trondit-eni-cobani-kush-eshte-cifti-i-njohur-qe-puthen-e-perqafohen-ne-publik-por","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/2026\/09\/07\/femije-jashte-martese-trondit-eni-cobani-kush-eshte-cifti-i-njohur-qe-puthen-e-perqafohen-ne-publik-por\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cF\u00ebmij\u00eb jasht\u00eb martese\u201d\/ Trondit Eni \u00c7obani, kush \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7ifti i njohur q\u00eb puthen e p\u00ebrqafohen n\u00eb publik, por\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Eni \u00c7obani ishte e ftuar n\u00eb episodin e sot\u00ebm t\u00eb Grida Duma Poskast, ku foli edhe p\u00ebr rastin m\u00eb trondit\u00ebs t\u00eb cilin i \u00ebsht\u00eb dashur t\u00eb nd\u00ebrmjet\u00ebsoj\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Juristja tha se rasti vjen nga nj\u00eb familje shum\u00eb e pasur shqiptare dhe nj\u00eb \u00e7ift shum\u00eb i njohur p\u00ebr publikun. \u00c7obani shpjegoi se si \u00e7ifti i njohur q\u00eb n\u00eb publik puthej dhe p\u00ebrqafohej, kishte nj\u00eb traum\u00eb brenda mureve t\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrsa tregoi se si mosmarr\u00ebveshja dhe mos komunikimi mes tyre kishte eskaluar deri n\u00eb ardhjen n\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb jasht\u00eb martes\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNj\u00eb familje shum\u00eb t\u00eb pasur n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, ku un\u00eb u ndodha padashur pjes\u00eb e nd\u00ebrmjet\u00ebsimit t\u00eb \u00e7iftit, ku preka nga af\u00ebr se \u00e7far\u00eb kishte ndodhur n\u00eb at\u00eb familje. Me shum\u00eb qet\u00ebsi m\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrcjell\u00eb dhe nga bashk\u00ebshorti dhe nga bashk\u00ebshortja historit\u00eb q\u00eb kishin jetuar edhe pse bashk\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrve\u00e7me. Dhe fatkeq\u00ebsisht b\u00ebnin sikur nuk dinin, por n\u00eb fakt ajo dihej sepse kur je n\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7ati dhe kur mungon me dit\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebra dhe kur vjen n\u00eb jet\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ka at\u00ebsin\u00eb e nj\u00eb personi q\u00eb ti bashk\u00ebjeton ti duhet ta kuptosh q\u00eb di\u00e7ka ka ndodhur. Dhe kjo besoj ka qen\u00eb nj\u00eb nga ato rastet trondit\u00ebse p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn sigurisht mu desh t\u00eb rrija af\u00ebr si zonj\u00ebs dhe zot\u00ebris\u00eb. Q\u00eb nuk doli kurr\u00eb n\u00eb publik, pa diskutim.<\/p>\n<p>E them k\u00ebt\u00eb si m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00ebn sepse emrat e p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb jan\u00eb emra shum\u00eb publik dhe t\u00eb njohur. Dhe kjo sigurisht tek un\u00eb solli edhe at\u00eb tronditjen brenda vetes p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb dhe kuptuar q\u00eb si \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur, sepse un\u00eb ata i kisha takuar her\u00eb pas here si ajo familja q\u00eb vet\u00ebm putheshin dhe p\u00ebrqafoheshin dhe nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb ata kishin nj\u00eb dram\u00eb brenda familjes, ku syt\u00eb e tyre nuk e shprehnin jasht\u00eb, por ata vuanin. Pasuria ishte elementi p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin ata nuk do gjenin kurr\u00eb qet\u00ebsi sigurisht arrit\u00ebm n\u00eb nj\u00eb zgjidhje. Situata u \u00e7lirua, jan\u00eb t\u00eb padivorcuar vazhdojn\u00eb n\u00eb dashurit\u00eb e tyre dhe sigurisht q\u00eb nuk jetojn\u00eb fizikisht bashk\u00eb, por martesa vazhdon.<\/p>\n<p>Traum\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe e p\u00ebrjetonte bashk\u00ebshortja, arritja e saj deri n\u00eb ato pika deri n\u00eb ardhjen e nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije ishte pak n\u00eb inat t\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve t\u00eb her\u00eb pas hershme t\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortit. Pra nuk flasim p\u00ebr nj\u00eb person q\u00eb kishte vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb njeri, por kishte disa dhe kjo \u00e7onte uj\u00eb n\u00eb pjes\u00ebn e gruas e cila vendosi gjithashtu t\u00eb b\u00ebnte t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb. Por ardhja e nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije e kishte traumatizuar, dhe mos pasja e mund\u00ebsis\u00eb q\u00eb at\u00ebsia t\u00eb ishte e babait sepse sigurisht ai e kishte refuzuar.<\/p>\n<p>Ajo pastaj vendosi q\u00eb ndarjen nuk do ta b\u00ebj sepse edhe pasurin\u00eb nuk mund ta ndaj\u00eb me ato njer\u00ebz q\u00eb m\u00eb soll\u00ebn mua n\u00eb at\u00eb pik\u00eb dhe vazhdon t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb lidhje\u201d, tha \u00c7obani.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Eni \u00c7obani ishte e ftuar n\u00eb episodin e sot\u00ebm t\u00eb Grida Duma Poskast, ku foli edhe p\u00ebr rastin m\u00eb trondit\u00ebs t\u00eb cilin i \u00ebsht\u00eb dashur t\u00eb nd\u00ebrmjet\u00ebsoj\u00eb. Juristja tha se rasti vjen nga nj\u00eb familje shum\u00eb e pasur shqiptare dhe nj\u00eb \u00e7ift shum\u00eb i njohur p\u00ebr publikun. \u00c7obani shpjegoi se si \u00e7ifti i njohur q\u00eb<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16715,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-16714","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-showbiz"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16714","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16714"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16714\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16716,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16714\/revisions\/16716"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16715"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16714"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16714"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16714"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}