{"id":17363,"date":"2026-10-27T14:49:47","date_gmt":"2026-10-27T14:49:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/?p=17363"},"modified":"2026-10-27T14:49:47","modified_gmt":"2026-10-27T14:49:47","slug":"mos-u-martoni-mos-beni-femije-vetem-se-e-kerkon-shoqeria-arbenita-shperthen-pas-vrasjes-se-arlinda-zekajt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/2026\/10\/27\/mos-u-martoni-mos-beni-femije-vetem-se-e-kerkon-shoqeria-arbenita-shperthen-pas-vrasjes-se-arlinda-zekajt\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cMos u martoni, mos b\u00ebni f\u00ebmij\u00eb vet\u00ebm se e k\u00ebrkon shoq\u00ebria\u201d, Arbenita shp\u00ebrthen pas vrasjes s\u00eb Arlinda Zekajt"},"content":{"rendered":"

Vrasja e Arlinda Zekajt n\u00eb Pej\u00eb ka rikthyer n\u00eb v\u00ebmendje dhun\u00ebn ndaj grave dhe p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb e institucioneve p\u00ebr mbrojtjen e tyre. Mes reagimeve t\u00eb shumta, modelja Arbenita Ismajli ka ndar\u00eb nj\u00eb mesazh t\u00eb fort\u00eb, p\u00ebrmes t\u00eb cilit u b\u00ebn thirrje grave t\u00eb mos lejojn\u00eb q\u00eb mentaliteti patriarkal t\u00eb diktoj\u00eb zgjedhjet e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n

P\u00ebrmes disa postimeve n\u00eb Instagram, Arbenita ka kritikuar pritshm\u00ebrit\u00eb shoq\u00ebrore q\u00eb, sipas saj, i shtyjn\u00eb grat\u00eb drejt martes\u00ebs dhe am\u00ebsis\u00eb, pa marr\u00eb parasysh d\u00ebshirat e tyre. Ajo ka k\u00ebrkuar gjithashtu q\u00eb grat\u00eb t\u00eb mos sakrifikojn\u00eb pavar\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb sistem q\u00eb nuk u garanton mbrojtje.<\/p>\n

\u201cOj femra, mjaft u dhat\u00eb pushtet burrave mbi jet\u00ebt tuaja! Mos u martoni, mos b\u00ebni f\u00ebmij\u00eb vet\u00ebm sepse k\u00ebshtu e k\u00ebrkon shoq\u00ebria\u201d,<\/strong><\/em> shkruan modelja n\u00eb mesazhin e publikuar.<\/p>\n

Reagimi i saj nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb kufizuar vet\u00ebm te kritikat ndaj mentalitetit patriarkal. Arbenita ka folur edhe p\u00ebr p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebn e saj me institucionet e drejt\u00ebsis\u00eb n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb, duke pranuar se ka humbur besimin te gjykatat, prokuroria dhe Qendra p\u00ebr Pun\u00eb Sociale.<\/p>\n

\u201cKjo \u00ebsht\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht arsyeja pse un\u00eb, si n\u00ebn\u00eb, humba besimin te gjykatat, prokuroria dhe Qendra p\u00ebr Pun\u00eb Sociale atje\u201d,<\/strong><\/em> shprehet ajo, duke iu referuar p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebs s\u00eb saj personale dhe shqet\u00ebsimeve p\u00ebr sigurin\u00eb e vetes dhe t\u00eb vajz\u00ebs.<\/p>\n

Modelja thot\u00eb se vendosi t\u00eb merrte vet\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr mbrojtjen e tyre, pasi, sipas saj, institucionet nuk i kishin trajtuar me seriozitet frik\u00ebn, traum\u00ebn dhe mir\u00ebqenien psikologjike t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs.<\/p>\n

\u201cSi n\u00ebn\u00eb, refuzova ta l\u00eb fatin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs tim n\u00eb duart e nj\u00eb sistemi q\u00eb nuk na dha siguri. As un\u00eb, as f\u00ebmija im nuk duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundojm\u00eb viktima q\u00eb institucionet m\u00eb n\u00eb fund t\u00eb na marrin seriozisht\u201d,<\/strong><\/em> ka shkruar Arbenita.<\/p>\n

\"\u201cMos<\/p>\n

Ajo e ka mbyllur reagimin me nj\u00eb kritik\u00eb t\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb ndaj m\u00ebnyr\u00ebs se si funksionon sistemi i drejt\u00ebsis\u00eb, duke theksuar se nd\u00ebrhyrja pas nj\u00eb tragjedie nuk mund t\u00eb z\u00ebvend\u00ebsoj\u00eb mbrojtjen n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e duhur.<\/p>\n

\u201cDrejt\u00ebsia q\u00eb vjen pas tragjedis\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb drejt\u00ebsi. \u00cbsht\u00eb d\u00ebshmi e d\u00ebshtimit t\u00eb nj\u00eb shteti q\u00eb duhej t\u00eb na mbronte\u201d,<\/strong> <\/em>p\u00ebrfundon modelja.<\/p>\n

\"\u201cMos<\/p>\n

Reagimi vjen n\u00eb nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb kur historia personale e Arbenit\u00ebs ka qen\u00eb prej vitesh n\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen e mediave, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb p\u00ebrplasjeve me ish-bashk\u00ebshortin e saj, reperin Fero, dhe \u00e7\u00ebshtjeve ligjore q\u00eb lidhen me marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien e tyre pas ndarjes dhe vajz\u00ebn Nina.<\/p>\n

N\u00eb korrik t\u00eb vitit 2023, Fero u arrestua n\u00ebn dyshimet p\u00ebr dhun\u00eb n\u00eb familje ndaj Arbenit\u00ebs. N\u00eb vitin 2025, Prokuroria Themelore n\u00eb Gjilan ngriti aktakuz\u00eb ndaj tij p\u00ebr dhun\u00eb n\u00eb familje, ngacmim seksual dhe kanosje, p\u00ebr veprime t\u00eb dyshuara gjat\u00eb vitit 2024. K\u00ebto akuza nuk p\u00ebrb\u00ebjn\u00eb, n\u00eb vetvete, nj\u00eb vendim p\u00ebrfundimtar faj\u00ebsie.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Vrasja e Arlinda Zekajt n\u00eb Pej\u00eb ka rikthyer n\u00eb v\u00ebmendje dhun\u00ebn ndaj grave dhe p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb e institucioneve p\u00ebr mbrojtjen e tyre. Mes reagimeve t\u00eb shumta, modelja Arbenita Ismajli ka ndar\u00eb nj\u00eb mesazh t\u00eb fort\u00eb, p\u00ebrmes t\u00eb cilit u b\u00ebn thirrje grave t\u00eb mos lejojn\u00eb q\u00eb mentaliteti patriarkal t\u00eb diktoj\u00eb zgjedhjet e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre. P\u00ebrmes<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":17364,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-17363","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-showbiz"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17363","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17363"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17363\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17365,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17363\/revisions\/17365"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17364"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17363"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17363"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17363"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}