{"id":17435,"date":"2026-10-31T13:53:28","date_gmt":"2026-10-31T13:53:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/?p=17435"},"modified":"2026-10-31T13:53:28","modified_gmt":"2026-10-31T13:53:28","slug":"e-putha-ne-balle-kisha-frike-se-fero-rrefen-momentin-emocionues-te-ritakimit-me-te-bijen-pas-2-vitesh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/2026\/10\/31\/e-putha-ne-balle-kisha-frike-se-fero-rrefen-momentin-emocionues-te-ritakimit-me-te-bijen-pas-2-vitesh\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cE putha n\u00eb ball\u00eb, kisha frik\u00eb se\u2026\u201d, Fero rr\u00ebfen momentin emocionues t\u00eb ritakimit me t\u00eb bij\u00ebn pas 2 vitesh"},"content":{"rendered":"

Fero ka rr\u00ebfyer detaje t\u00eb path\u00ebna m\u00eb par\u00eb p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien me ish-bashk\u00ebshorten, Arbenita Ismajli, dhe periudh\u00ebn e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb kur p\u00ebr dy vite nuk pati asnj\u00eb kontakt me vajz\u00ebn e tij. I ftuar t\u00eb premten n\u00eb emisionin \u201cLive me Luizin\u201d, k\u00ebng\u00ebtari foli p\u00ebr at\u00ebsin\u00eb, divorcin dhe raportin q\u00eb ka arritur t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtoj\u00eb s\u00ebrish me Arbenit\u00ebn, p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb vajz\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n

Gjat\u00eb bised\u00ebs, Fero theksoi se sot mes tij dhe ish-bashk\u00ebshortes ekziston nj\u00eb komunikim i mir\u00eb dhe se t\u00eb dy p\u00ebrpiqen ta ruajn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00ebn e vajz\u00ebs.<\/p>\n

\u201cNuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqen t\u00eb flas p\u00ebr njer\u00ebz q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb prezent\u00eb, por un\u00eb e kuptoj ku do t\u00eb dal\u00ebsh ti, Luiz. Un\u00eb me n\u00ebn\u00ebn e vajz\u00ebs sime g\u00ebzojm\u00eb nj\u00eb raport shum\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Duam q\u00eb ta ruajm\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb raport p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb vajz\u00ebs, e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb duke u rritur\u201d,<\/em> <\/strong>tha ai.<\/p>\n

K\u00ebng\u00ebtari u ndal edhe te momenti kur u b\u00eb baba p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, duke e cil\u00ebsuar takimin me t\u00eb bij\u00ebn si nj\u00eb nga p\u00ebrjetimet m\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7anta t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tij.<\/p>\n

\u201cNdjesia m\u00eb e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb, q\u00eb nuk ka fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr ta p\u00ebrshkruar, \u00ebsht\u00eb kur e kam par\u00eb vajz\u00ebn dhe e kam marr\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00ebn time. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb q\u00eb nuk p\u00ebrshkruhet. Vajza m\u00eb ka m\u00ebsuar se un\u00eb \u00e7doher\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebj p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndryshuar veten p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00ebn time dhe t\u00eb jem nj\u00eb shembull m\u00eb i mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb\u201d, u shpreh Fero.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Por momenti m\u00eb emocional i rr\u00ebfimit ishte periudha dyvje\u00e7are gjat\u00eb s\u00eb cil\u00ebs ai nuk kishte mund\u00ebsi ta takonte apo t\u00eb komunikonte me vajz\u00ebn e tij. K\u00ebng\u00ebtari tregoi se kjo kishte qen\u00eb nj\u00eb nga periudhat m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tij, duke shtuar se kishte k\u00ebrkuar ndihm\u00eb edhe p\u00ebrmes gjykat\u00ebs dhe rrjeteve sociale.<\/strong><\/em><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

\u201cP\u00ebr dy vite nuk e kam takuar dhe as nuk kam folur n\u00eb telefon. Ka qen\u00eb periudha m\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr mua, sepse ka qen\u00eb aq e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb si periudh\u00eb, saq\u00eb sa her\u00eb e kam marr\u00eb af\u00ebr zemr\u00ebs munges\u00ebn e vajz\u00ebs dhe mos-takimin me t\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos folur p\u00ebr munges\u00ebn e komunikimit dhe mosdijenin\u00eb p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn e vajz\u00ebs.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Gjat\u00eb atyre koh\u00ebrave, un\u00eb kam dal\u00eb dhe kam k\u00ebrkuar ndihm\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet gjykat\u00ebs dhe rrjeteve sociale. Njeriu, kur \u00ebsht\u00eb i l\u00ebnduar emocionalisht, mund t\u00eb gaboj\u00eb m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti, dhe kam gabuar. Kam k\u00ebrkuar t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn time dhe kam p\u00ebrjetuar shum\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi. Nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht, m\u00eb ka r\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb fshihen p\u00ebr mua. Kam pasur dhimbje q\u00eb nuk kam mundur ta takoj vajz\u00ebn.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Tani kan\u00eb kaluar dhe jam fal\u00ebnderues ndaj Arbenit\u00ebs p\u00ebr bashk\u00ebpunimin q\u00eb kemi tani si prind\u00ebr p\u00ebr vajz\u00ebn. Kemi nj\u00eb komunikim shum\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe nuk dua tani q\u00eb t\u00eb dal\u00eb dikush t\u00eb m\u00eb sulmoj\u00eb apo etiketoj\u00eb me gj\u00ebra pa lidhje, q\u00eb un\u00eb ta humbas kontaktin me vajz\u00ebn time\u201d,<\/strong> <\/em>rr\u00ebfeu ai.<\/p>\n

Fero kujtoi gjithashtu takimin e par\u00eb me t\u00eb bij\u00ebn pas dy vitesh, i cili u realizua n\u00eb Dubai. Ai tregoi se n\u00eb at\u00eb moment u p\u00ebrball edhe me nj\u00eb ndryshim q\u00eb e preku emocionalisht: vajza kishte harruar gjuh\u00ebn shqipe dhe komunikonte vet\u00ebm n\u00eb anglisht.<\/p>\n

\u201cKur e kam takuar p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, kam shkuar n\u00eb Dubai. Kisha dy vite pa e par\u00eb dhe pa folur me t\u00eb. Kur flas me t\u00eb, kishte harruar shqipen fare dhe fliste vet\u00ebm anglisht. Aty u m\u00ebrzita p\u00ebr maman\u00eb time, por tani \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb\u201d, u shpreh k\u00ebng\u00ebtari.<\/p>\n

N\u00eb fund, ai ndau edhe emocionet e momentit kur e mori s\u00ebrish pran\u00eb vetes, duke zbuluar se kishte pasur frik\u00eb se vajza mund ta kishte harruar.<\/p>\n

\u201cE kam puthur n\u00eb ball\u00eb\u2026 Nuk m\u00eb kishte harruar. E kisha frik\u00eb se mos m\u00eb kishte harruar\u201d, p\u00ebrfundoi Fero.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Fero ka rr\u00ebfyer detaje t\u00eb path\u00ebna m\u00eb par\u00eb p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien me ish-bashk\u00ebshorten, Arbenita Ismajli, dhe periudh\u00ebn e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb kur p\u00ebr dy vite nuk pati asnj\u00eb kontakt me vajz\u00ebn e tij. I ftuar t\u00eb premten n\u00eb emisionin \u201cLive me Luizin\u201d, k\u00ebng\u00ebtari foli p\u00ebr at\u00ebsin\u00eb, divorcin dhe raportin q\u00eb ka arritur t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtoj\u00eb s\u00ebrish me Arbenit\u00ebn, p\u00ebr<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":17436,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-17435","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-showbiz"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17435","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17435"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17435\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17437,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17435\/revisions\/17437"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17436"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17435"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17435"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17435"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}