{"id":4953,"date":"2024-02-05T17:35:08","date_gmt":"2024-02-05T17:35:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/?p=4953"},"modified":"2024-02-05T17:35:08","modified_gmt":"2024-02-05T17:35:08","slug":"kur-u-divorcova-te-gjithe-e-perjetuam-keq-ledjona-rrefehet-mes-lotesh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/2024\/02\/05\/kur-u-divorcova-te-gjithe-e-perjetuam-keq-ledjona-rrefehet-mes-lotesh\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cKur u divorcova, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e p\u00ebrjetuam keq\u201d\/ Ledjona rr\u00ebfehet mes lot\u00ebsh!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb bisede me Dean, Ledjona ka folur p\u00ebr ndarjen nga ish-burri, lindjen e vajz\u00ebs, ndarjen tjet\u00ebr pas 4 vjet\u00ebsh dhe transferimin n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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Ledjona tregon pengun e madh q\u00eb ka p\u00ebr vajz\u00ebn sot.<\/p>\n

“Kemi 7 vjet q\u00eb jemi ndar\u00eb. Jemi lidhur q\u00eb t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl. Kam qen\u00eb 16 vje\u00e7e, ku dija un\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb ishte dashuria. Ishim kalamanj. Kur isha 22-vje\u00e7e un\u00eb linda vajz\u00ebn. Pasi mbarova studimet pam\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ishim p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Por jemi ndar\u00eb me marr\u00ebveshje. Vajza ka pasur nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie shum\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb me baban\u00eb. Ai nisi nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetes\u00eb tjet\u00ebr dhe aty u ftoh pak me vajz\u00ebn, por sidoqoft\u00eb kontaktet i ka pasur gjithmon\u00eb. Ne u ndam\u00eb sepse nuk po ecte m\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia jon\u00eb. Pastaj un\u00eb pata nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetes\u00eb kat\u00ebr vjet me dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr n\u00eb Kor\u00e7\u00eb. Edhe me at\u00eb kam shkuar mir\u00eb, kujdesej shum\u00eb p\u00ebr vajz\u00ebn. Por kishte nj\u00eb ves, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin i premtuam nj\u00ebri-tjetrit q\u00eb do ta luftonim bashk\u00eb, por nuk arriti t\u00eb hiqte dor\u00eb, sepse pati edhe nj\u00eb disfat\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00ebt e veta sepse jetonte jasht\u00eb. Edhe un\u00eb u lodha. Kur u ndava me t\u00eb nuk pat\u00ebm debate. Por k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb e p\u00ebrjetoi keq vajza. Nuk po rrija dot m\u00eb aty. Edhe pse bleva sht\u00ebpin\u00eb i rregullova gj\u00ebrat me 100 sakrifica, nuk rrija dot. Ika nga Kor\u00e7a erdha n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb. Ishte janar. Nuk mund ta largoja vajz\u00ebn nga shkolla, edhe e lash\u00eb me prind\u00ebrit dhe gjysh\u00ebrit e t\u00eb atit sepse e donin shum\u00eb. E lash\u00eb deri n\u00eb qershor sa t\u00eb gjeja pun\u00ebn, sht\u00ebpin\u00eb. Kam luftuar me mish e me shpirt. Me pun\u00ebn m\u00eb ka ecur gjithmon\u00eb. Kam punuar 3-4 pun\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019ia dal. Se nuk kemi pasur edhe buk\u00eb t\u00eb ham\u00eb. Flinim pa buk\u00eb. Por vajza nuk e jepte veten kurr\u00eb, vet\u00ebm thoshte: Mami sa e fort\u00eb je. 6 muaj n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb sa u stabilizova, por shpirti im e di q\u00eb e lash\u00eb vet\u00eb. Shkoja \u00e7do jav\u00eb ose dy her\u00eb n\u00eb jav\u00eb se nuk rrija dot pa e par\u00eb. Shkoja n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi pas pun\u00eb vet\u00ebm qaja.<\/p>\n

E di \u00e7far\u00eb kam peng n\u00eb jet\u00eb? Q\u00eb nuk kam m\u00ebsuar ta rris sepse kam qen\u00eb gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs n\u00eb terren, n\u00eb pun\u00eb. Nuk jam m\u00ebsuar ta shoh si rritet. Nuk ndodh kurr\u00eb q\u00eb ajo t\u00eb doj\u00eb di\u00e7ka dhe t\u00eb thot\u00eb: E dua! Pyet n\u00ebse e kam marr\u00eb rrog\u00ebn ose thot\u00eb nuk e dua, n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb e shtrenjt\u00eb nuk e merr. Mora vajz\u00ebn n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb, ia gjeta shkoll\u00ebn af\u00ebr sht\u00ebpis\u00eb. Ajo ik\u00ebn n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb, un\u00eb n\u00eb pune. Kur kthehet n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi m\u00eb thot\u00eb vet\u00ebm: Mami erdha.”, tregon Ledjona mes lot\u00ebsh.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb bisede me Dean, Ledjona ka folur p\u00ebr ndarjen nga ish-burri, lindjen e vajz\u00ebs, ndarjen tjet\u00ebr pas 4 vjet\u00ebsh dhe transferimin n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb. Ledjona tregon pengun e madh q\u00eb ka p\u00ebr vajz\u00ebn sot. “Kemi 7 vjet q\u00eb jemi ndar\u00eb. Jemi lidhur q\u00eb t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl. Kam qen\u00eb 16 vje\u00e7e, ku dija un\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb ishte dashuria.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4797,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-4953","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-showbiz"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4953","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4953"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4953\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4955,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4953\/revisions\/4955"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4797"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4953"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4953"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4953"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}