{"id":8120,"date":"2024-10-03T12:48:10","date_gmt":"2024-10-03T12:48:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/?p=8120"},"modified":"2024-10-03T12:48:10","modified_gmt":"2024-10-03T12:48:10","slug":"si-duhet-trajtuar-bullizmi-ne-shkolle-ja-disa-keshilla","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/2024\/10\/03\/si-duhet-trajtuar-bullizmi-ne-shkolle-ja-disa-keshilla\/","title":{"rendered":"Si duhet trajtuar bullizmi n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb! Ja disa k\u00ebshilla!"},"content":{"rendered":"

P\u00ebrmes vet\u00ebkorigjimit, monitorimit sa m\u00eb t\u00eb gjer\u00eb t\u00eb subjekteve bullizuese, pun\u00ebs edukative, performanc\u00ebs gjithj\u00eb n\u00eb rritje t\u00eb psikolog\u00ebve e sociolog\u00ebve, bashk\u00ebpunimit me familjen, do arrihet t\u00eb amortizohet e zbutet akoma m\u00eb shum\u00eb fenomeni i rrziksh\u00ebm e traumatik i bullizmit.<\/p>\n

Fenomeni i bullizimit ndodh kudo ku ka prani t\u00eb theksuar humane. Ka mendime q\u00eb e lidhin fenomenin edhe me gjenetik\u00ebn njer\u00ebzore, d. m. th. brenda \u00e7do njeriu gjendet prirja p\u00ebr t\u00eb bullizuar sadopak tjetrin. Dhe n\u00ebse k\u00ebrkon argumenta ose prova p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00eb sapo thash\u00eb t\u00eb orientojn\u00eb n\u00eb kuvendimet e burrave q\u00eb kur mblidheshin n\u00ebp\u00ebr oda p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuvenduar, p\u00ebrmes bisedave alegorike (me n\u00ebnkuptime) sh\u00ebnjestronin pren\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ishte dikush jo shum\u00eb i holl\u00eb n\u00eb hedhje-pritjet e batutave.<\/p>\n

Po ashtu nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr prov\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb sjellin n\u00eb v\u00ebmendje mbrojt\u00ebsit e ides\u00eb se bullizimi lind me njeriun \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe dhuna verbale e jo rrall\u00eb fizike q\u00eb shk\u00ebmbejn\u00eb mes tyre politikan\u00ebt e nivelit t\u00eb lart\u00eb q\u00eb presupozohet t\u00eb jen\u00eb etaloni i sjelljes qytetare apo m\u00eb keq akoma kur bullizmi i tyre drejtohet p\u00ebr nga shtresa e popullat\u00ebs.<\/p>\n

Bullizmi vihet re edhe n\u00eb stadiumet e futbollit. Tifozeria vendase agreson jo vet\u00ebm me fjal\u00eb ekipin kund\u00ebrshtar apo gjyqtar\u00ebt e takimit, ose kur lojtar\u00ebt n\u00eb munges\u00eb t\u00eb rezultatit q\u00eb d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb t\u00eb arrijn\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorin kart\u00ebn e dhun\u00ebs verbale e fizike ndaj kund\u00ebrshtar\u00ebve.<\/p>\n

Por le t\u00eb kthehemi n\u00eb \u201cfush\u00ebn ton\u00eb\u201d, pra n\u00eb mjediset shkollore. Fenomeni i bullizimit n\u00eb shkollat tona ka qen\u00eb i pranish\u00ebm gjithmon\u00eb, edhe para viteve 90, sigurisht nuk njihej me k\u00ebt\u00eb term por shkurt i thonin tallje apo v\u00ebnie n\u00eb loj\u00eb. Dekada e fundit duhet th\u00ebn\u00eb se ka sjell\u00eb nj\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsim q\u00eb sa vjen e rritet rreth fenomenit t\u00eb bullizmit n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb. Politikat arsimore t\u00eb zbatuara n\u00eb shkollat tona i m\u00ebshojn\u00eb faktit se m\u00ebsuesit krahas pun\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre m\u00ebsimore duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb vigjilent\u00eb ndaj k\u00ebtij fenomeni traumatik q\u00eb vihet re n\u00eb mjediset shkollore. Po ashtu vendosja e sociologut e psikologut n\u00ebp\u00ebr shkolla e amortizon sadopak fenomenin.<\/p>\n

Rastet m\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrhapura t\u00eb bullizimit n\u00ebp\u00ebr shkolla jan\u00eb ato mes nx\u00ebn\u00ebsve, q\u00eb ndeshet n\u00eb forma verbale e fizike. Bullizmi verbal ushtrohet p\u00ebrmes nofkave apo epiteteve q\u00eb lidhen me pamjen e jashtme si p. sh \u201cgjiraf\u00eb\u201d p\u00ebr vajzat shtatlarta, \u201cxhuxh\u201d p\u00ebr nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit q\u00eb vijn\u00eb t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr nga shtati, \u201cgaga\u00e7\u201d p\u00ebr ata q\u00eb ju merret goja, \u201ccoftin\u00eb\u201d p\u00ebr ata q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb zhd\u00ebrvjell\u00ebt, \u201csyze\u201d p\u00ebr ata q\u00eb mbajn\u00eb gjyslyk\u00eb n\u00eb sy, \u201cpikalosh apo kuqo\u201d p\u00ebr ata q\u00eb e kan\u00eb fytyr\u00ebn e trupin t\u00eb mbuluar me pika t\u00eb kuqe (lija e pul\u00ebs), \u201cllari\u00e7\u201d p\u00ebr nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit e sh\u00ebndosh\u00eb, \u201cgjalpin\u201d p\u00ebr ata q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb but\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Nd\u00ebrsa bullizmi fizik lidhet me sulmin fizik q\u00eb p\u00ebson zakonisht nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi i dob\u00ebt fizikisht apo i ndrojtur si natyr\u00eb, dhe agresioni ndodh kryesisht n\u00eb oborrin e shkoll\u00ebs, ngaq\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb pak i v\u00ebzhguar nga stafi i shkoll\u00ebs.<\/p>\n

Nj\u00eb form\u00eb tjet\u00ebr bullizimi \u00ebsht\u00eb ai elektronik q\u00eb lidhet me sulmin n\u00eb rrjetet sociale q\u00eb agresor\u00ebt iu b\u00ebjn\u00eb sh\u00ebnjestrave t\u00eb tyre p\u00ebrmes shantazhit e presionit t\u00eb formave t\u00eb ndryshme e t\u00eb mir\u00ebnjohura tashm\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Bullizmi ndeshet rrall\u00eb edhe n\u00eb familje, ku prind\u00ebrit, zakonisht baballar\u00eb, ushtrojn\u00eb dhun\u00eb e fyerje t\u00eb pajustifikuara ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre.
\nJan\u00eb raportuar raste bullizimi edhe nga ana e rojeve t\u00eb shkollave her\u00eb nga padija e pakultura p\u00ebrmes t\u00eb b\u00ebrtiturave e fyerjeve e her\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebllimshme nga ana e tyre.<\/p>\n

Nj\u00eb lloj bullizmi mund t\u00eb quhet edhe sulmi q\u00eb gati t\u00eb gjith\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit nd\u00ebrmarrin ndaj bankave, stolave, dyerve, mureve n\u00eb klas\u00eb, ndaj dyshemes\u00eb q\u00eb e mbushin me mbeturina t\u00eb farave t\u00eb lulediellit apo mbetjeve ushqimore.<\/p>\n

Jo rrall\u00eb n\u00eb mjediset shkollore n\u00eb nivele jo shqet\u00ebsuese,flitet edhe p\u00ebr bulliz\u00ebm t\u00eb m\u00ebsuesve ndaj nx\u00ebn\u00ebsve. Shpjegimi q\u00eb t\u00eb japin k\u00ebto subjekte q\u00eb ushtrojn\u00eb bulliz\u00ebm lidhet me efektin boomerang (kund\u00ebrveprim) q\u00eb mbart bullizmi.<\/p>\n

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M\u00ebsuesit, nuk duhet harruar se jan\u00eb q\u00ebnie njer\u00ebzore prej mishi e gjaku e nervash e sado t\u00eb duruar e kalitur t\u00eb jen\u00eb nga nervat ka momente q\u00eb kund\u00ebrveprojn\u00eb ndaj agresionit t\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit, i cili shfaqet n\u00eb mosrespektimin e detyrimeve q\u00eb ka nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi gjat\u00eb q\u00ebndrimit n\u00eb klas\u00eb a n\u00eb mjediset shkollore si p. sh mungesa e zot\u00ebrimit t\u00eb kompetenc\u00ebs qytetare nga ana e nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit n\u00eb form\u00ebn e zhurm\u00ebs q\u00eb shkakton, konsumit t\u00eb ushqimit gjat\u00eb or\u00ebs s\u00eb m\u00ebsimit, p\u00ebrdorimit t\u00eb celularit, ngacmimit, munges\u00ebs s\u00eb seriozitetit ndaj or\u00ebs s\u00eb m\u00ebsimit e m\u00ebsuesit, ardhjes i pap\u00ebrgatitur, t\u00eb folurit pa leje etj.<\/p>\n

N\u00eb p\u00ebrfundim ajo q\u00eb duhet theksuar \u00ebsht\u00eb se p\u00ebrmes vet\u00ebkorigjimit, monitorimit sa m\u00eb t\u00eb gjer\u00eb t\u00eb subjekteve bullizuese, pun\u00ebs edukative q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb njoh\u00eb akoma rritje, performanc\u00ebs gjithj\u00eb n\u00eb rritje t\u00eb psikolog\u00ebve e sociolog\u00ebve, bashk\u00ebpunimit me familjen (si origjin\u00eb e shtetit) do arrihet t\u00eb amortizohet e zbutet akoma m\u00eb shum\u00eb fenomeni i rrziksh\u00ebm e traumatik i Bullizmit.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

P\u00ebrmes vet\u00ebkorigjimit, monitorimit sa m\u00eb t\u00eb gjer\u00eb t\u00eb subjekteve bullizuese, pun\u00ebs edukative, performanc\u00ebs gjithj\u00eb n\u00eb rritje t\u00eb psikolog\u00ebve e sociolog\u00ebve, bashk\u00ebpunimit me familjen, do arrihet t\u00eb amortizohet e zbutet akoma m\u00eb shum\u00eb fenomeni i rrziksh\u00ebm e traumatik i bullizmit. Fenomeni i bullizimit ndodh kudo ku ka prani t\u00eb theksuar humane. Ka mendime q\u00eb e lidhin<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8122,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-8120","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lifestyle"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8120","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8120"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8120\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8123,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8120\/revisions\/8123"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8122"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8120"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8120"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8120"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}