E ngopur nga takimet me burrat e gabuar dhe me or\u00ebn e saj biologjike q\u00eb trokiste me z\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb, nj\u00eb grua p\u00ebrshkruan udh\u00ebtimin e saj ndryshe drejt am\u00ebsis\u00eb.
\n\u201cSinqerisht hoqa dor\u00eb nga besimi se do t\u00eb isha k\u00ebtu ku jam sot, n\u00eb pritje t\u00eb \u00ebmb\u00ebl. N\u00eb fakt, n\u00eb n\u00ebntor t\u00eb 2021-shit, un\u00eb shkrova nj\u00eb artikull p\u00ebr The Telegraph ku tregova p\u00ebr humbjen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs. Pastaj gjith\u00e7ka dukej e pashpres\u00eb. Pas vitesh takime t\u00eb d\u00ebshtuara dhe sjelljen n\u00eb mendje p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar te bankat e sperm\u00ebs, po pajtohesha me nj\u00eb jet\u00eb pa f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Por m\u00eb pas Eddie pranoi t\u00eb b\u00ebnte nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb me mua: Eddie, miku im m\u00eb i mir\u00eb homoseksual.\u2060 Un\u00eb jam nj\u00eb nga shum\u00eb gra t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs 35 dhe 45 vje\u00e7e q\u00eb jan\u00eb pajtuar me jet\u00ebn pa nj\u00eb burr\u00eb dhe si e pamartuar. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mosh\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e zorshme t\u00eb b\u00ebsh f\u00ebmij\u00eb.<\/p>\n
K\u00ebshtu e pyeta mikun tim, Eddie n\u00ebse mund t\u00eb b\u00ebnim nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb bashk\u00eb. Un\u00eb e njoh at\u00eb dhe partnerin e tij p\u00ebr 20 vjet. Ata jan\u00eb nj\u00eb mosh\u00eb me mua. Ne u takuam teksa punonim n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin restorant n\u00eb Edinburg, kur un\u00eb isha student atje. Nuk kishim folur kurr\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00eb bashk\u00eb dhe kur kthehem pas dhe kujtoj, habitem me veten sa e guximshme paskam qen\u00eb.<\/p>\n
“Dua t\u00eb kem nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb,” shkrova n\u00eb nj\u00eb email. \u201cDhe pyesja veten n\u00ebse doje t\u00eb b\u00ebheshe babai? \u00cbsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr mua q\u00eb f\u00ebmija im t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb histori origjine dhe un\u00eb do t\u00eb doja q\u00eb dikush t\u00eb ndaj\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebn me t\u00eb. Po t\u00eb pyes sepse t\u00eb dua, ndajm\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat vlera dhe mendoj se do t\u00eb ishe nj\u00eb baba i mrekulluesh\u00ebm. Por mos ke frik\u00eb t\u00eb thuash jo. Fluturat ekstreme m\u00eb mbajt\u00ebn zgjuar p\u00ebr tre net. Pastaj ai u p\u00ebrgjigj. “Jack dhe un\u00eb kemi folur tashm\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb drejtim t\u00eb ri p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. Por ne ndjem\u00eb se nd\u00ebrsa nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb mund t\u00eb marr\u00eb dashuri dhe kujdes t\u00eb plot\u00eb nga dy prind\u00ebr meshkuj, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00ebrmbush\u00ebse t\u00eb jesh nj\u00eb baba mb\u00ebshtet\u00ebs p\u00ebr nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb ka dashurin\u00eb e n\u00ebn\u00ebs. Do t\u00eb doja t\u00eb isha pjes\u00eb e vendimit t\u00eb jet\u00ebs t\u00ebnde dhe do t\u00eb doja t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshihesha n\u00eb \u00e7do m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb mundshme. Un\u00eb do t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtes \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb nevojitet q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim.”<\/p>\n
Ne ram\u00eb dakord q\u00eb un\u00eb do t\u00eb kujdesesha p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn dhe ata do t\u00eb kujdeseshin sigurisht. Eddie do t\u00eb shkruhej si babai i f\u00ebmij\u00ebs n\u00eb certifikat\u00ebn e lindjes. Un\u00eb ia arrita t\u00eb b\u00ebhem n\u00ebn\u00eb fal\u00eb IVF, Eddie \u00ebsht\u00eb babai i f\u00ebmij\u00ebs sim. Tani jam 8-muajshe shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb dhe tani ndiej jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb f\u00ebmija l\u00ebviz brenda meje, por m\u00eb fut edhe disa shkelma t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Un\u00eb, Eddie dhe Jack po p\u00ebrpiqemi t\u00eb blejm\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi ku t\u00eb jetojm\u00eb t\u00eb tre dhe jam shum\u00eb e lumtur p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb.”, thot\u00eb ajo.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
E ngopur nga takimet me burrat e gabuar dhe me or\u00ebn e saj biologjike q\u00eb trokiste me z\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb, nj\u00eb grua p\u00ebrshkruan udh\u00ebtimin e saj ndryshe drejt am\u00ebsis\u00eb. \u201cSinqerisht hoqa dor\u00eb nga besimi se do t\u00eb isha k\u00ebtu ku jam sot, n\u00eb pritje t\u00eb \u00ebmb\u00ebl. N\u00eb fakt, n\u00eb n\u00ebntor t\u00eb 2021-shit, un\u00eb shkrova nj\u00eb<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8323,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-8322","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lifestyle"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8322","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8322"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8322\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8324,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8322\/revisions\/8324"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8323"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8322"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8322"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8322"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}