{"id":9047,"date":"2024-10-28T11:50:16","date_gmt":"2024-10-28T11:50:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/?p=9047"},"modified":"2024-10-28T11:50:16","modified_gmt":"2024-10-28T11:50:16","slug":"pse-duhet-te-mesoni-te-hiqni-dore-nga-e-shkuara","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/2024\/10\/28\/pse-duhet-te-mesoni-te-hiqni-dore-nga-e-shkuara\/","title":{"rendered":"Pse duhet t\u00eb m\u00ebsoni t\u00eb hiqni dor\u00eb nga e shkuara!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nga Paulo Coelho<\/p>\n<p>\u00cbsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb e nevojshme t\u00eb kuptosh se kur p\u00ebrfundon nj\u00eb etap\u00eb e caktuar e jet\u00ebs. N\u00ebse k\u00ebmb\u00ebngul t\u00ebq\u00ebndrosh n\u00eb t\u00eb shkuar\u00ebn, pavar\u00ebsisht kalimit t\u00eb koh\u00ebs, e humbet lumturin\u00eb dhe sensin e koh\u00ebs. \u00cbsht\u00eb e nevojshme ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb mbyll\u00ebsh disa rrath\u00eb, t\u00eb mbyll\u00ebsh disa dyer, ose t\u00eb mbyll\u00ebsh disa kapituj,si\u00e7 doni t\u2019i quani. E r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb mundesh t\u2019i mbyll\u00ebsh, t\u2019i l\u00ebsh pas disa momente t\u00eb p\u00ebrfunduara t\u00eb jet\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p>Puna jote mori fund?<br \/>\nMarr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia jote mori fund?<br \/>\nNuk jeton m\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb sht\u00ebpi?<br \/>\nDuhet t\u00eb shkosh n\u00eb nj\u00eb udh\u00ebtim?<\/p>\n<p>Mund t\u00eb kalosh shum\u00eb koh\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb tashmen t\u00ebnde i \u201casgjesuar\u201d nga pse-t\u00eb, duke rimenduar t\u00eb shkuar\u00ebn dhe duke u p\u00ebrpjekur t\u00eb kuptosh pse-n\u00eb, apo si-n\u00eb e situatave t\u00eb caktuara. Mir\u00ebpo kamata q\u00eb do t\u00eb vijoj\u00eb do t\u00ebjet\u00eb e pafund, sepse n\u00eb jet\u00eb, ju, un\u00eb, miqt\u00eb tuaj, v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit tuaj dhe motrat tuaja, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb duhet t\u00eb jemi n\u00ebrrug\u00ebn drejt mbylljes s\u00eb kapitujve, kthimit t\u00eb faqeve, mbylljes s\u00eb etapave dhe vazhdimin e t\u00eb ecurit p\u00ebrpara.<\/p>\n<p>Nuk mund t\u00eb jetojm\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb tashmen, duke u penduar p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar\u00ebn. As duke e munduar veten me pse-t\u00eb. Ajo q\u00eb ka kaluar, ka p\u00ebrfunduar tashm\u00eb. Ndodhi ajo q\u00eb ndodhi dhe duhet ta l\u00ebm\u00eb t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb, duhet t\u00ebshk\u00ebputemi prej saj. Nuk mund t\u00eb jemi p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, adoleshent\u00eb, apo punonj\u00ebs n\u00eb pun\u00eb, nga t\u00eb cilat na kan\u00eb hequr apo jan\u00eb mbyllur. Gj\u00ebrat kalojn\u00eb dhe duhet t\u2019i l\u00ebm\u00eb t\u00eb shkojn\u00eb. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb kaq e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrrohen kujtimet, t\u00eb zhvendosni sht\u00ebpi, t\u00eb grisni letra, t\u00eb hidhni dokumenta, t\u00eb shisni ose dhuroni libra.<\/p>\n<p>L\u00ebreni t\u00eb shkuar\u00ebn, shk\u00ebputuni prej saj. N\u00eb jet\u00eb, askush nuk luan me zara dhe duhet t\u00eb m\u00ebsohet si t\u00ebfitosh, ashtu edhe t\u00eb humbas\u00ebsh dhe t\u00eb jetojm\u00eb t\u00eb tashmen. E shkuara \u00ebsht\u00eb e shkuar. Mos prisni t\u00eb kthehet m\u00eb pas. L\u00ebreni pas inatin p\u00ebr ngjarjet e kaluara dhe p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb kishit b\u00ebr\u00eb ndryshe. Duke u kapur pas \u00e7asteve t\u00eb s\u00eb shkuar\u00ebs, vet\u00ebm l\u00ebndojm\u00eb veten, e helmojm\u00eb veten dhe zhvillojm\u00eb hidh\u00ebrim. Jeta \u00ebsht\u00ebb\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ecur p\u00ebrpara, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos u kthyer kurr\u00eb pas. Thuaji vetes \u201cJo, gj\u00ebrat nuk mund t\u00eb ndryshojn\u00eb\u201d. Binde veten q\u00eb e shkuara nuk kthehet pas. Nuk jemi asnj\u00ebher\u00eb si dy dit\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb, si tre muaj m\u00eb par\u00eb, apo si nj\u00eb vit m\u00eb par\u00eb. Mbyllni der\u00ebn, ktheni faqen, mbylleni rrethin.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nga Paulo Coelho \u00cbsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb e nevojshme t\u00eb kuptosh se kur p\u00ebrfundon nj\u00eb etap\u00eb e caktuar e jet\u00ebs. N\u00ebse k\u00ebmb\u00ebngul t\u00ebq\u00ebndrosh n\u00eb t\u00eb shkuar\u00ebn, pavar\u00ebsisht kalimit t\u00eb koh\u00ebs, e humbet lumturin\u00eb dhe sensin e koh\u00ebs. \u00cbsht\u00eb e nevojshme ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb mbyll\u00ebsh disa rrath\u00eb, t\u00eb mbyll\u00ebsh disa dyer, ose t\u00eb mbyll\u00ebsh disa kapituj,si\u00e7 doni t\u2019i quani.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9048,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-9047","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lifestyle"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9047","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9047"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9047\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9049,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9047\/revisions\/9049"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9048"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9047"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9047"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9047"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}