Nga Lira Gjika: Prind\u00ebrit q\u00eb p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb humbjen e nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije kalojn\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet nj\u00eb ndjenje hidh\u00ebrimi t\u00eb thell\u00eb, q\u00eb nuk krahasohet me asgj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Por n\u00ebse k\u00ebta prind\u00ebr kan\u00eb nj\u00eb apo disa f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, n\u00ebp\u00ebr at\u00eb hidh\u00ebrim q\u00eb p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb, duhet t\u00eb kujtohen q\u00eb jan\u00eb edhe prind\u00ebrit e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs apo f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, q\u00eb si ata, po p\u00ebrballen me vdekjen dhe humbjen e r\u00ebnd\u00eb e t\u00eb frikshme.<\/p>\n
Kjo humbje e v\u00ebllait apo motr\u00ebs dhe d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimi pa fund i prind\u00ebrve, krijon te ata gj\u00ebndje hutimi, frike, faji, boshll\u00ebku dhe malli. Ajo q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e keqja n\u00eb k\u00ebto gj\u00ebndje, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt nuk arrijn\u00eb ta artikulojn\u00eb p\u00ebshtjellimin q\u00eb p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb. Nj\u00eb zakon i keq, q\u00eb ne praktikojm\u00eb ende n\u00eb raste t\u00eb tilla, \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrjashtimi i f\u00ebmij\u00ebve nga zija dhe heshtja n\u00eb sy t\u00eb tyre. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb mendojn\u00eb se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl dhe nuk kuptojn\u00eb asgj\u00eb dhe k\u00ebshtu, nuk ka kuptim t\u00eb flitet. P\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra m\u00eb e keqe e t\u00eb trajtuarit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs apo f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. Kjo m\u00ebnyr\u00eb e l\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn vet\u00ebm me ndjesit\u00eb e veta t\u00eb paem\u00ebrtuara, q\u00eb vet\u00ebm shtojn\u00eb distanc\u00ebn prind f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe t\u00eb ndjerit i huaj n\u00eb familje.<\/p>\n
I lem\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt vet\u00ebm n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00ebm\u00eb q\u00eb mezi e p\u00ebrballojn\u00eb t\u00eb rriturit, t\u00eb cil\u00ebve ka raste q\u00eb u duhen vite t\u00eb dalin nga gjendja e zis\u00eb. T\u00eb rritur, duhet ta dini q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt vuajn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se se vet\u00eb t\u00eb rriturit. N\u00eb rradh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb kan\u00eb humbur v\u00ebllan\u00eb apo motr\u00ebn, q\u00eb r\u00ebndohet edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb me faktin e p\u00ebrjashtimit nga kjo ngjarje, kur ata kan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb nevoj\u00eb se kurr\u00eb dhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb se kushdo tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar se \u00e7far\u00eb po ndodh? Pse ndodhi? Po ai kishte faj? Po atij a do ti ndodh\u00eb?<\/p>\n
Pra gjith\u00eb k\u00ebto pik\u00ebpyetje dhe askush nuk i gjendet pran\u00eb p\u00ebr ti dh\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje. Dhe p\u00ebr ta plot\u00ebsuar kuadrin, asnj\u00eb i rritur nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb pran\u00eb tij, p\u00ebr ta pyetur se \u00e7far\u00eb ndien nga kjo eksperienc\u00eb kaq e r\u00ebnd\u00eb? T\u00eb rritur, mos i lini vet\u00ebm f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb gj\u00ebma t\u00eb tilla kaq t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Nga Lira Gjika: Prind\u00ebrit q\u00eb p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb humbjen e nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije kalojn\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet nj\u00eb ndjenje hidh\u00ebrimi t\u00eb thell\u00eb, q\u00eb nuk krahasohet me asgj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Por n\u00ebse k\u00ebta prind\u00ebr kan\u00eb nj\u00eb apo disa f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, n\u00ebp\u00ebr at\u00eb hidh\u00ebrim q\u00eb p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb, duhet t\u00eb kujtohen q\u00eb jan\u00eb edhe prind\u00ebrit e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs apo f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, q\u00eb si ata,<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9577,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[31],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-9576","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-health-beauty"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9576","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9576"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9576\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9578,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9576\/revisions\/9578"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9577"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9576"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9576"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistatrend.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9576"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}